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Everybody but me...

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I feel bad venting on here the day after I intoduced myself but I'm in shambles and venting seems to be the only thing I haven't tried. So a little less than 4 weeks ago I found out that one of my really good friends is pregnant. I put on a brave face, stuck it out through dinner, and then sobbed all the way home. This week has been hell! I found out on Tuesday my DH BF's wife is pregnant. Then last night my best friend told me she got KU on accident. Then today my sister called me sobbing(half because she doesn't want a baby right now, half because she feels bad for me) to tell me she is pregnant. Is the universe trying to torture me? And how can I be happy for anybody when I am ao miserable? Ugh... What do I do?
Me: 29; DH: 28; DS: 7 Married: 11/12/11 TTC since 11/11 1/13 Clomid 50mg = BFN
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  • Jen071407Jen071407 member
    I can completely relate. I know 8 pregnant people, 2 being my close friends that are actual neighbors. I thought I was finally moving past the jealousy, until one just told me she's expecting twins based on her 8wk ultrasound. Really, world?! I'm excited

    Two DDs 10/08 and 08/10, no primary IF
    TTC #3 since 10/2011 - dx unexplained/weak ovulation
     3 BFN clomid + TI cycles, 5 BFN clomid/gonal f IUIs, 1 mmc IUI
    2/19/2014 IVF #1 Unexpected low E2 (oversuppressed) -> increased to max doses = 3 or 4 follicles, converting to IUI
    BFFP Saw 1 beautiful heartbeat at 6w6d, follow up u/s at 9w showed mmc. Eff this.
    NTNP 5/2014-9/2014, OPKs and TI 10/2014 - 1/2015. 
    RPL testing all normal, AFC, AMH, and FSH all normal. 
    IVF 1.2 1/22/2014 natural cycle start, AFC 28, 300 gonal f/150menopur. 
    ER 2/3/15 14R 8M 3F w/ICSI Day 5 transfer on 2/8/15 of one "Grade A+" blast and have TWO frosties! 

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  • M&MDM&MD member
    Thanks, it helps to know that there are other people going through the same things.
    Me: 29; DH: 28; DS: 7 Married: 11/12/11 TTC since 11/11 1/13 Clomid 50mg = BFN
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  • tryingyetagaintryingyetagain member

    It sounds like you really are surrounded with it.  Ugh.  It's so hard seeing everyone else be where you want to be, especially when some of those pregnancies aren't wanted!  That is just not right. 

    My neighbor, who I see at

    Me: 42. DH: 46.

    1st Pregnancy: MC, 11/19/00.

    2nd Pregnancy: DS born 04/10/06.

    3rd Pregnancy: CP, 03/11.

    4th Pregnancy: MMC, D&C 11/30/11, Genetic testing revealed Trisomy 4.

    5th Pregnancy: Ectopic, 2 doses of Methotrexate unsuccessful, surgery 4/10/12, right tube removed.

    Tried Letrozole January 2013-July 2013 (including 2 IUIs), all BFN.  After 2 1/2 years of trying for child #2, decided to "give up" after July cycle, based on AMA.

    August 16, 2013:  BFP our first month of "not trying!"  Still in shock.  Beta #1 (14dpo): 183.  Beta #2 (17dpo):  611.  Ultrasound 8/30/13: baby measured 6 weeks, 1 day, heart rate of 118 bpm! 
    Ultrasound 9/13/13:  8 weeks, heart rate of 176!
    Baby is due 4/26/14

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