I had the pleasure of attending the Created for Care retreat last weekend. The best speaker I heard was Amy Monroe. Along w/her husband and the work of Dr. Karen Purvis, she has a series called Empowered to Connect.
In a nutshell, Dr. Purvis did research in the field of adoption and connecting w/children. And the workshops emphasize making connections with our kids.
It is a Christian program.
She shared "Correcting While Connecting" in a workshop. It was fantastic.
If you ever get the opportunity to attend a workshop, watch a video, or read a book... DO! Here's a link to their work:
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