Have there been quite a few posts recently where people are trying to make it seem like it's the norm/ people expect them to throw their own shower? I honestly have a very hard time believing there are that many people out there saying "you aren't throwing your own? Why not?".
Or... maybe there are and there is just a part of the country that is incredibly tacky.
But - I just feel like in the past few days, we've had a few posters pop up spinning this tale.