So maybe this isn't a big deal and I am being overly sensitive but I was wondering how others would respond to this email. My next door neighbor is Due april 14th two days before my due date would have been with Ella. Today she sent an email to me and two other neighbors wondering if any of us could be on call to watch her son if when she goes into labor. I don't know why this seems like such a blow to me, I know her baby eventually has to come, its not her fault my little girl is gone. but I just don't know if I want to know the exact time she goes into labor knowing I won't be having my baby. I am being really selfish aren't I? I am the only one around during the day so I really should tell her I can help out, but I really don't want to. Wwyd?