Leaving - no BFP mentioned

miakrita

I know I haven't been so active here recently.  But I am leaving, and I wanted to write a post about it so I don't just disappear, as I feel like I have made friendships on this board.  

There is no BFP here.   I am leaving because DH and I just decided to switch from TTCAL to TTA.  I know that many women here are TTA.  But this decision comes as we face a new chapter of our lives -- one in which we will be living apart for a year or so due to me starting my career in a city 2.5 hours away, where DH has not been able to find work.  The decision to TTA is therefore part of a broader life change, and in order to fully switch my mindset from obsessing over TTCAL to forgetting entirely about TTC, I need to get off this board. 

In a way, this decision brings me peace.  I comes exactly one year after we started we started TTC and falls on our most recent EDD.  It will be nice to give myself a break and maybe truly let myself heal. 

Thank you for all of your support and friendship.  I wish the best for all of you.  

mightymousy

Awww sad to see you go hunny but good luck with everything *hugs* it sounds like you're in a good place about the decision so I'm happy for you

buggirl72

Big ((((((hugs)))))) sweetheart.  Take care of yourself and your H.  You have a lot of big changes in front of you.  I hope your H can find work closer to you very soon.

Houseofchaos

I was just thinking about you! I'm sorry you're going but best of luck!!

ZAngel

I'm sorry you are leaving.  I wish you the best and pray that your DH finds work near you soon.  I couldn't imagine the struggles of having to live away from each other.  Good luck with whatever your future holds.

jenn0021

Oh hon, I'm sorry to see you go but also understand the need to step away and focus on all these new changes. I hope that the future is bright and good things are headed your way.

Know that you are always welcome back, whenever that may be. Huge ((hugs)).

miakrita

Huge ((hugs)) and thanks to each and every one of you for all of your support and friendship.  You have all helped me grow so much.  I will miss you all and expect to see you all over on PAL when I return in the future. 

Books, replied! 

So much love to you all

heather52904

I'm sorry to see you go, but I understand. [HUGS] Good luck with the new job and new chapter in your lives!

anitaflora

I will miss seeing you on the board but wish you all the best in your upcoming changes!

kr_ry

I wish you the best and hope that your DH will be able to fine a good job near yours so you can be closer together during the week. ((hugs))

KMW08

congrats on the job, I hope you love it! I also hope YH finds work closer to you  

set your mind free, focus on one thing at a time and let the puzzle come together. if and when you do come back, I hope you find yourself on pgal. 

nothing but positive vibes and best wishes being sent your way as well. 

Smash2009

anitaflora:

I will miss seeing you on the board but wish you all the best in your upcoming changes!

This! Good luck with the new changes!
XO

Tink1704

Wishing you the best of luck in your new career and hope your hubby finds work so you can start the rest of your goals. Take care.

MamaWombat

We'll miss you, but wishing you all the best. 

PinkCamino

I'm going to miss you!!!

But, I completely understand. I wish you nothing but the very very best. xoxoxo

alleycat39

So sad to see you leave the board, but I wish you only the best in this upcoming year!

LLPtobe

(((hugs))) All the best to you hon. Sorry to see you go, but it sounds like this is the right decision for you.

sammer818

Good luck with everything sweetie. I hope you and your DH find excitement and happiness in your new direction in life.

ellajune2012

We'll miss you. It seems like so many people are leaving. It really sounds like you have a lot of big changes to deal with and I wish you good luck and all the best in your new career (and hope your DH can come live with you soon!)