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SoonToBeThreeSoonToBeThree member
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Hi ladies. I am cautiously joining you!  I got my first BFP in November 2012, quite unexpectedly. We were so thrilled at the wonderful surprise! Sadly, I had an ultrasound for my first appointment and learned that there was no heartbeat. The baby had stopped growing around 7 weeks and I had a missed miscarriage. I needed up having my D&C on 12/20/12. We were completely devastated.

We waited 2 cycles to try again, and I got another BFP on 3/5/13. I was so excited to see those two pink lines!! However, now I am having a hard time getting excited about this pregnancy. Of course, I can't stop thinking of what could go wrong. I suppose that is normal for women in our situation. I just wish I could have that naive bliss I had the first time around.

 Thanks for letting me hang out here. I hope I get to stick around for the full nine months! 

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  • MissyCeeMissyCee member
    Welcome and congrats on your BFP! It is definitely normal to worry and not want to get too excited but take it day by day and don't let the worry consume you. Wishing you a very H&H 9 months!

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  • nrcrossnrcross member
    Congrats and welcome.Wishing you a H&H 9 months.

    TTC Since June 2012 BFP #1 08/01/12, D&C 09/07/12 9 weeks, Blighted Ovum BFP #2 01/01/13 m/c 5 weeks BFP #3 03/02/13 D&C 4/15/13 m/c 11 weeks, 07/19/13 Hysteroscopy for Scar Tissue, 9/12813 Hysteroscopy & Laparoscopy for Scar Tissue, Cleared to TTC October 2013. 

    BFP # 4 11/01/2013 EDD 07/12/14

    Dear God, Since I couldn't hold my little one in my lap and tell him about you, could you hold him in your lap and tell him about me?

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  • anitanation09anitanation09 member
    Unfortuntely, it is typical for a PgAL brain.. I also had a missed m/c discovered in November, followed by a d&c also in November. I am now 7w4d, and we got to see a HB on Wednesday. So I'm hoping you can recieve the same good news. Hoping for a H&H 9 months to you!

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     *Gone but never forgotten* {c/p 11/16/12 @ 4w4d}{MMC 11/20/12 @ 8w5d}

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  • HollyBee1022HollyBee1022 member
    imagencchnat:

    Congratulations and welcome! Smile

    It's definitely normal to worry when you're PgAL. This board wouldn't be here otherwise. Just tell yourself everyday, "Today I am pregnant and I love my baby."

     

    All this.  Congrats!

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