same excitement as me

jewelzy11

I just got married on 12-29-13(husband and I were together 3 years prior)He is almost 42 and I am 34, and he has 3 kids already, 15,16, and 18. Our first week into dating we had the children talk and I made it very clear that I wanted a kid of my own. He was honest and said he would have been ok with being done but, that he would not rob me of having a child of my own. (we grew up in the same home town and our families know each other, so that serious talk early was not strange)

I am ready to have a baby, I just don't feel like he is quite as excited. I know we are a little older, so I don't want to wait too long. I am off BC and we agreed that if it happens then it happens. But, I find myself thinking about it all the time, but no one to share it with....I want to work a little harder at it, and be more proactive.

Am I being funny about it? are most guys like that? not as silly about it as us? or is it just him because he has children already?

A little background on him, he is a great Dad, the kids live with us, and I can't wait for him to raise our kid the same great way he raised his.