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PAL CheckIn

Mrs NiceMrs Nice member
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Hello Ladies.

Welcome to Friday PAL Checkin! This CheckIn is for everyone who is parenting after a loss. If you have an older child or a rainbow baby or both you are welcome to share here.

I hope everyone is having a good week. If anyone has any suggestions for questions, please don't be shy!

Where are you in your PAL journey?

What are some PAL challenges you have faced recently?

QOTW: Do you feel that your SO has the same PAL fears as you do?

Open Topic. What is on your mind this week?

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Re: PAL CheckIn

  • HeatherhahHeatherhah member
    Where are you in your PAL journey? it will be 18 months this month

    What are some PAL challenges you have faced recently? not many , I just worry about our rainbow all the time I panic about her very easily.

    QOTW: Do you feel that your SO has the same PAL fears as you do? no he is much more laid back then I am he hardly ever worries!

    Open Topic. What is on your mind this week? not much just trying to live each day as it comes and smile when I can. Our rainbow helps with the grief since she is so damn cute LOL!!
     
    DS- Brenden born 11/13/93 Missed miscarriage on March 6, 2007 @ 9 weeks D&C on March 8th 2007. Riley Annalise born 2/25/08 ( 3 weeks early weighing 8 lbs 12.8 oz.) Chemical pregnancy 3/2010. Sydney Adriana born sleeping on 9/30/11 weighing 10lbs 3 oz at 38wks 4 days. Trinity Alivia born via c section at 36 wks 4 days weighing 9 lbs. 5.7 oz. She is our amazing rainbow baby!!! Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers Lilypie First Birthday tickers PGAL buddy drvst8
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  • lenya_35lenya_35 member
    Where are you in your PAL journey? 
     
    It's been three weeks since we lost June.


    What are some PAL challenges you have faced recently? 
     
    Just trying to "be there" for DD.  I know she needs her mommy and I'm trying to focus on her, but it is really hard to keep it together.  She asks me why I'm sad, and I'm honest and open with her about what happened to June, but I don't want her to grow up thinking "mommy's always sad."

    QOTW: Do you feel that your SO has the same PAL fears as you do? 
     
    Yes and no.  We're both terrified of something happening to DD, but DH is more so than I am.  I'm most worried about not being able to be a good mom to DD because I'm grieving.

    Open Topic. What is on your mind this week?
     
    I'm really anxious about going back to work.  I have three more weeks of leave and I don't know how I'm going to be  "well" enough to go back and be an effective employee/manager.  I know I shouldn't be focusing on that yet, but I can't help it.  I used to be a high performer at work, and I just don't see how I can go back to that. 
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