Third-Party Reproduction

Vent...

I tend to get frusrated when you cant get ahold of a person at the clinic for questions but, they call when they want money!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am still working on getting the meds and I did get enough for the transfer hopefully by the end of he week but the clinic called wanting $650 to hold my donor embryos.  ummm we picked them two weeks ago and I am feeling like they are rushing me big time.  Ever wanna tell the clinic to slow down.  In the past 3 weeks I have gotten the pap,  consult, all the blood work, ultrasound womb check, trial transfer, and picked my embryos. Yeah I want this so much but, I am not superwoman.  I still have to work, I have a foster child that has tubes and adnoids to be operated on next week, and a husband.      
Married since 2004 Primary POF Foster parent but have no had an adoption trying embryo adoption Just want a forever baby RE jacksonville FL FIRM

Re: Vent...

  • Yeah that would frustrate me! Once ou put the money down can you explain to them that they will need to work with your availability? I know that since its a FET there should be flexibility in timing. Right? 

     If I remember correctly you are like me and don't have a cycle? I know that our calendar was set by the time frame we wanted since all they have to do is thaw and then the transfer. 

    ((Hugs)) 

    April 2013 DE IVF= BFN

    September 2013 DE IVF (Fingers Crossed) = BFFFN! again...

    October 2013 FET of our last 2 = Beta Hellzz for 6-7 Weeks. M/C

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  • yep and I have been very happy with them until yesterday.  They finially did call me back to call in my meds today.  I have to find a speciality pharmacy to get the progesterone in sesameseed oil.  I asked my embryo cordinator about the $650 dollar fee to hold the embryos and she told me that it was because people pick their embryo and then decide not to do it she guesses.  It was not on the list of fees they gave me so I was taken totally by surprise.  I am just as ready to do the transfer as they are but ummm my body is human.  I guess I am frustrated, you go through all the tests, doctor appts, why would they think I was not going to use the embryos I took a week to pick out??? I have every intension to hand them a check for the full amount. 
    Married since 2004 Primary POF Foster parent but have no had an adoption trying embryo adoption Just want a forever baby RE jacksonville FL FIRM
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