TTC after 35

It just keeps getting better.

My cousin and I go to the same RE.
Yep. She's pg again. Baby 2. She does one or two IUI's and boom. Wtf.
I want to be happy for her. I'm not feeling very happy. Plus I'm still hot and moody.

Re: It just keeps getting better.

  • I'm sorry!  I know how you feel. My cousin got pregnant 1 month into marriage...said she didn't realize until she was 5 months along.  How does that happen?
    Me:37 DH:40 Married 7/2009 TTC since 5/2012 
    BFP 4/2013, Our Christmas Miracle Due 12/18/2013
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  • So sorry, I know it really is hard to celebrate other people's success even though in our hearts we really are happy for them. Some days we are able to use it as encouragement that it is possible, other days we just want to crawl in a dark corner. HUGS!
    Me:41, DH:41 Positive for MTHFR mutations- one copy C677T, one copy A1298C. One daughter born on Thanksgiving in 2013. Six losses.
  • ugh I am so sorry! hopefully this will be your moment!

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    My Ovulation Chart



    Me: 41 DH: 46. We are TTC our 1st, started July '11,
    3 cycles clomid with Ob,
    1 cycle Tamoxifen with Ob,
    Diagnosed PCOS 11/5/12
    clomid, trigger & timed bd 12/12 BFN
    1st clomid IUI 1/4/13 BFN.
    2nd clomid IUI 2/13 cancelled didn't respond to clomid.
    3/15/13 scheduled laparoscopy & on bcp.

    May 10 IUI from injectibles - BFN 

    May 22 done with interventions it will either happen or it won't. 

    February 2014 No longer actively trying, but not preventing. 

    SURPISE BFP 4/2/2015!!!!!!!!!!

    Miscarriage 4/23/15

     

  • So sorry. I know that's hard.  HUGS
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  • I'm sending you lots of (((((hugs)))))  I can understand not being to receptive after receiving this news from your cousin and being on those meds.....ugh, that is tuff.  Hopefully, your time will be real soon.  Keep your chin up, I can understand how frustrating it all can be.  :)
    Lilypie Trying to Conceive 15 to 80 day cycle tickers
  • I'm sorry you had to deal with her news.  Sending (((hugs))) your way.  Your time is coming.  Keep your chin up and stay positive.  I know, it is not easy to do...
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  • You are awesome women!!! Thank you for being here for me!!! It is such a relief to have a safe place to vent my frustrations.
    My dh gets more upset than I do sometimes. He wants to be a Daddy so badly and I feel so bad about disappointing him... us....
  • Huge hugs to you Heather. Like pp said...your time is coming!

    ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
    Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive.  Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)

    DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN  DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!


     

     

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  • I POAS. It was negative. :
  • Heather NOOOO! Can you test again today?? I won't believe this. Too early?

    ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
    Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive.  Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)

    DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN  DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!


     

     

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  • I don't know, it seems like enough time.The beta is Monday and I feel the creeping symptoms of AF...
    I am trying to remain optimistic.
    I am still drinking yucky decaf...just in case...
    I have another stick for tomorrow morning....
  • Yeah, I agree with Becky...too early.  My F'sXed for you, that tomorrow's will be positive!  :)   You are in my thoughts and prayers.  :)
    Lilypie Trying to Conceive 15 to 80 day cycle tickers
  • Heather, I hope it's just too early...maybe wait until tomorrow night to POAS, so at least you know what to expect going in on Monday.

    Fingers crossed for you that you get a Positive...

     

    TTC since 3/2010. Me 41, DH-49. After 3 years, 6 IUIs and several IVFs we have finally have our beautiful baby girl, born on 11/7/13.



  • I hope your too early! ooh fx crossed for you.....

    image
    My Ovulation Chart



    Me: 41 DH: 46. We are TTC our 1st, started July '11,
    3 cycles clomid with Ob,
    1 cycle Tamoxifen with Ob,
    Diagnosed PCOS 11/5/12
    clomid, trigger & timed bd 12/12 BFN
    1st clomid IUI 1/4/13 BFN.
    2nd clomid IUI 2/13 cancelled didn't respond to clomid.
    3/15/13 scheduled laparoscopy & on bcp.

    May 10 IUI from injectibles - BFN 

    May 22 done with interventions it will either happen or it won't. 

    February 2014 No longer actively trying, but not preventing. 

    SURPISE BFP 4/2/2015!!!!!!!!!!

    Miscarriage 4/23/15

     

  • Thank you. It is so hard to stay positive sometimes. So hard.
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