TTCAL makes me sad now...

angielayne926

There are so many more crazies bothering the ladies over there, I can't believe it.  I was there only a year ago and it was never that bad.  I feel bad for our  TTCAL ladies....

Junebug060609

I agree. I'm there sometimes now...the joys of having another loss after my son, sometimes I just need to 'talk' to people who are in the same place I am. Anyways, there were jerks two years ago...they just seem more prevalent now.

JuddandJessica

How so? What's going on?

angielayne926

JuddandJessica:

How so? What's going on?

It just seems like there are a bunch of ladies only there to stir up hit with people. It makes me sad to see. TTCAL saved my sanity after my losses and I hate to see people ruin it.

angielayne926

Junebug060609:

I agree. I'm there sometimes now...the joys of having another loss after my son, sometimes I just need to 'talk' to people who are in the same place I am. Anyways, there were jerks two years ago...they just seem more prevalent now.

So sorry for your loss.

mork

I do feel bad for the ladies, but I don't think it's near as bad as it was a couple of years ago. There were many more goats and trolls back then.

One thing I do notice is the ladies getting upset easier. It's a LOT more puppies and rainbows. For example, you have to put a warning even to talk about your loss or losses. Being able to talk about it is a main function of the board. Having to put a warning, unless it's graphic detail or a play by play account, is over the top, IMO.

The ladies also get really mean. Yes, we always got upset and would try to lighten the situation with PIPs etc, but I never remember anyone calling someone a c..t etc. Even twisted jessie was given more respect than that.

JuddandJessica

Wow. That is sad. I think I only survived my losses because of those boards.

MrsRiceARoni

mork:

I do feel bad for the ladies, but I don't think it's near as bad as it was a couple of years ago. There were many more goats and trolls back then. One thing I do notice is the ladies getting upset easier. It's a LOT more puppies and rainbows. For example, you have to put a warning even to talk about your loss or losses. Being able to talk about it is a main function of the board. Having to put a warning, unless it's graphic detail or a play by play account, is over the top, IMO. The ladies also get really mean. Yes, we always got upset and would try to lighten the situation with PIPs etc, but I never remember anyone calling someone a c..t etc. Even twisted jessie was given more respect than that.

I totally agree the whole mood of the board is very different than a few years ago. I think the board might com bust now if twisted came back lol, good times.

FreyaWin2382

JuddandJessica:

Wow. That is sad. I think I only survived my losses because of those boards.

Me too....that board and those ladies saved my sanity following my miscarriages. 

suntoto

It goes in phases.  It will ease then get bad and rinse and repeat. It is the nature of the boards.

ewilliams1127

FreyaWin2382:

JuddandJessica:

Wow. That is sad. I think I only survived my losses because of those boards.

Me too....that board and those ladies saved my sanity following my miscarriages. 

MC/Preg Loss and TTCAL were the only thing that got me through.