April 2013 Moms
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Lost my dad yesterday...

He has been suffering over the last year with chronic lung infections and was having difficulty breathing. He collapsed on Sunday and was rushed to the hospital by ambulance. Yesterday morning his heart suddenly stopped and despite their best efforts, they could not revive him.

I miss him so much. He always called me his little girl, and had started calling our LO his little, little girl. He was so excited to meet her, and I feel like I have lost a huge part of me. I have so much guilt over the fact that he will not get to meet his first grandchild, I cannot stop crying. T&Ps would be greatly appreciated... this is so overwhelming and I just feel lost.

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    I am so, so sorry for your loss.  You and your family are definitely in my thoughts.
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    Thinking of you and your family. I cannot imagine how hard this must be for you. Try to take it day by day. I had my great grandma pass away during my pregnancy and she desperately wanted to meet our LO and have the 5 generations together. I still think about her a lot when I think of baby.
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    I'm so sorry. Just take it one day at a time and don't expect too much out of yourself. If you need to get any emotions out anywhere, in front of anyone, then do it. T&Ps for you and your family.
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    So many thoughts and prayers going to you, your little girl, and your whole family! I can only imagine your pain right now. Sending hugs and hopes that somehow you'll find some peace.


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    i am so so sorry for your loss.  T&P coming your way.
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    I am so sorry.  I am so close to my dad and I don't know what I'd do.  Please don't feel guilt -- it isn't your fault!   I hope you have a good support system to help you through the rest of this pregnancy.

     

     

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    I am so sorry & I can't fathom what you are going through but I am here for you.  Stay strong for your little girl & i'll be sending my T & P your way.

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    Oh firefly, I am SO sorry.  I'm a total daddy's girl and would just lose my mind if I lost my dad right now.  Praying for you and sending hugs.
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    I am so very sorry for your loss.  I lost my father five years ago, I know what this pain feels like. You and your family are in my thoughts.
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    So sorry for your loss, you are in my thoughts & prayers!
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    Oh no, I'm so sorry for your loss! Lots of hugs and prayers headed your way!
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    I am so deeply sorry for your loss.  You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
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    I'm so sorry.  My T & Ps are with your family.
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    I'm so sorry. what a terrible loss to face at this time in your life. I was very close to my dad and lost him suddenly almost 5 years ago. Even though it was a year before my son was even conceived DS is the first grandchild I still feel sad about the fact that my father never knew him, or even about him for that matter. Try to take comfort in the memories you have and also in the fact that you have a new little one on the way. I'm sure your father would want you to be celebrating right now, as he would be, in anticipation of your new baby, and that is a great way to honor him.
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    I'm so sorry, hun. :-(
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    My heart goes out to you.  My dad and I are very close.  I can't even imagine.  PP was right, don't feel guilty.  Just make sure that "little little girl" knows how much granddad loved her.  He's still with her in spirit.  Thoughts and prayers to you and the family.
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    I am so so sorry for your loss. Hugs to you!
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    Oh my goodness, I am so so sorry for your loss. Many TP for you and your family. I'm sorry your sweet little baby won't get to meet her grandfather.
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    I am so sorry to read this. I lost my dad when I was 17 and I always hate when someone new has to join the club. If you need to talk or vent I would be more than willing to be here for you, just PM me and we can talk on facebook or something. This is such a hard thing to go through, especially while pregnant. You will be in my thoughts.
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    Im so sorry.
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    I am so sorry for your loss. T&P going your way tonight. :(
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    Praying for you and your family during this difficult time.
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    I'm so very sorry for your loss.
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    I'm so sorry for your loss. that is so sad! 
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    I am so so sorry for the loss of you dad. I lost my dad recently as well! XOXO
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    OMG how terrible. I'm so sorry for your loss.
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    I am so sorry for your loss. You will be in my T&P. Hugs your way
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    Oh no, I am so, so sorry. This is devastating for you and your family. You are absolutely in my thoughts and prayers. Lots of love to you sweetie. Xox
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    I am so sorry for your loss.
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    I'm so so sorry.  Lots of T&Ps for you and your family.  My father had a stroke right before my wedding and it was devastating.  I can't imagine how hard this is for you right now on top of being pregnant.  Like PP said, don't expect too much of yourself and try to rest.  We'll all be thinking about you.


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    I am so very sorry for your loss. I hope he will find a way to watch over you and your LO from above.
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    So sorry for your loss :(

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    Your in my thoughts..


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    I am so so sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers for your you and your family during this time!
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    So very sorry for your loss, you are in my thoughts and prayers.
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    I am so sorry for your loss. I can't even begin to imagine how you must be feeling right now. Try not to feel guilty. Although he may not have gotten to meet your little girl I'm sure that the fact that he got to experience his little girl creating a new life brought him so much happiness. I will be thinking about you.
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    I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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    Huge HUGS! Losing a parent is so, so tough. Thoughts and prayers for your family during this rough time.
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    I'm so, so sorry
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    I'm so, so sorry for your loss.  T&P.
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