I've been invited to two different showers, both FTMs. I think their registries are ridiculous, with a lot of unnecessary/expensive items, and due to having a kid 6 months ago and making a recent move, money is a little tighter than usual. I don't want to go buy clothes or blankets, because they'll get plenty of those, I don't know if they're using sposies or cloth, and I don't have a clue what they want as far as bath stuff, so I'm sort of at a loss. I know both ladies are planning on breastfeeding, so I thought about putting together a gift package that included my favorite nipple butter, a couple of boxes of disposable nipple pads, some homemade lactation cookies with the recipe included, and a few burp clothes made from cute receiving blankets. I don't want to come across as cheap or like I don't care or whatever, does this sound like a good gift idea? Do y'all think I should add anything else to sort of "finish" the package, or does it seem fine as is? I'm probably way over-thinking this, but I always agonize over gifts!