This is more of a vent- but after everything we have been through and the losses we have had my h wants to tell everyone we're pregnant and it is getting on my nerves.
I am only 4 weeks and I have explained to him that anything can go wrong (God forbid) and no one knows we went through IVF and I want it to stay that way.
So yesterday he told me that he told all the guys he plays basket ball with because he had to tell someone.... HELLO I want to scream it from the roof tops but I am not.
I told him how I would feel if we told people now and something happens, he keep reassuring me but that doesnt matter because he really dont know what is going to take place.... he just doesnt get it! I have compromised and told him we can tell my parents at 10 weeks and no earlier.
If I had it my way I would tell people after 12 to 16 weeks maybe longer!
Anyone else's H being this difficult?
01/07-09 off BCP NTNP
07/09 - ectopic right side removed
08/11 HSG my left tube is all clear- Blood work all normal
12/11 SA everything is normal
04/12 1st round of Clomid 100 mg ovulating from right side= BFP (left tube picked up right side?) Beta 96 Beta 2 126 Beta 3 150 04/17/12 Betas dropped 112 miscarried 5w3d
05/27/12 2nd round of Clomid-6 follies R- 18,12,12 L-15, 12,12 -60ml- HCG+IUI =BFN 06/27/12
3rd round of Clomid-4+follies R-18 L, 28, 23- 139ml- HCG+IUI= BFN 07/26/12 4th round of Clomid-R side only -20-24-25-27 = BFN 08/25/12 5th round of Clomid-L-26 139ml +HCG+ IUI = BFN
09/22/12 6th round of Clomid-L-18-19 R-13-18-23? natural = BFN 10/24/12 7th round of Clomid-L-21-23 HCG +natural = BFN
12/21/12 starting BC moving on to IVF
1/7/13 Baseline and blood work, sono,Lupron, Bravelle and Menopur
2/11/13 ER 8retrieved 5mature/ICSI 3 fertilized
2/14/13 3dt 2-10 cell/1 frostie
Beta#1 249 Beta#2 511