So I ended up taking that much needed day off to rest yesterday, thanks to you ladies for suggesting it and really giving me the kick I needed to take some down time!
I slept in, and then DH (who works afternoons, so was home), DS, and I went to our favourite sushi restaurant for lunch. We had finished our meal and DH went to the restroom. When he got up and left the table a waitress came over and started speaking to DS. Her english was not very good at all. She spoke to DS for a couple minutes just fussing over him, and then she stood up, looked me in the eye, and told me it was very sad that he had a soother and that I was ruining his teeth and had to stop doing that to him.
I was dumbfounded. Couldn't even speak.
I have been continuously assuring myself that her english was not good, and she probably didn't realize how offensive, and abrassive her choice of words was... but I'm still fuming. DH wanted me to call the restaurant and complain (I didn't tell him until we were out the door, otherwise I know he would have made a scene, he has a touchy temper).
Has anyone else been stranger mommy-shamed?