I'm due with our first child August 9th, and I'm wondering what other people have done for childbirth classes around the Twin Cities. As this is our first time going through this, my husband and I are not really sure where to start looking, how necessary attending an actual class is compared to taking an online course, etc. Please share your childbirth class experiences and if you have any good recommendations for places around the Minneapolis area that offer them!
Thanks!
Re: Childbirth Classes?
Congrats! I would either ask your OB/GYN for recommendations or look at the hospital you are planning on delivering at (if that is your plan). DH and I took an basic childcare class at Maple Grove Hospital. I think the class was definitely worth the time, even now I realize we could have figured most everything out but it really set my mind at ease and helped me understand what to expect. The class covered everything from labor, hospital stay, postpartum care, and the first few months with a newborn. With you being a FTM I recommend taking some form of class. Good luck!
I'd also suggest asking your OB/GYN. Ours (Southdale OB/GYN) offers their own classes with specialized instruction.
I found it very helpful to do an in-person class. Giving birth is a traumatic experience (let's face it) - I couldn't imagine going into it without some 1:1 time with a professional beforehand.
I couldn't agree more with that last sentence! I went into it thinking, "if I can't take it, I'll just get an epidural" and didn't take a class. I had an awful, long, induced labor...and the epidurals failed. I felt very traumatized for the first week or so, I cried about it a lot and thought there was no way id have another...but now LO is almost five months and I've already forgotten those feelings and am excited to TTC later this year! Anyway, I will definitely be taking a Bradley or hypnobirthing class next time around. I don't know where yet, but I know there's plenty of options around!
We also used Amma (our hospital didn't offer their own classes), and I thought their classes were good and worth the money. I thought there was something about getting the information from an in-person setting, and being able to interact with/ask questions of an instructor that seemed to help me absorb the information better. I took the Breastfeeding, Baby Care Basics, and 3 week Preparing for Childbirth all separately, roughly 2 months before I was due, which I thought was perfect timing. I thought Preparing for Childbirth was the most useful - it was helpful to learn about what to expect during labor, options for medication, relaxation techniques, information on both vaginal and c-section deliveries, and being reminded that childbirth rarely goes according to our plan. After taking the class, the process of giving birth felt like less of a mystery and I felt much more prepared. Breastfeeding was helpful, but wasn't a substitute for the help of the nurses and lactation consultants in the hospital after the baby was born. Any class does make breastfeeding seem somewhat easier and more straightforward than when you're holding a newborn that you have to teach to latch, but I still found it helpful to hear the information in advance. Baby Care Basics, though taken separately, felt a little rushed, but it was good to have the overview since neither DH or I had cared for a baby before.
In addition, I recommend taking a tour of the hospital at which you will be delivering a month or two before your due date. It's nice to get an idea of what to expect when you arrive, and become familiar with the facility before you are there to give birth.
Congratulations!
Another option to consider are the FREE Parent Topic Nights put on by the Childbirth Collective. There are locations in Mpls and St. Paul, and they offer different topics weekly, in an evening seminar format. They likely won't cover everything that you might go over in a class from Amma or a hospital, but they do cover a lot. All PTNs are taught by birth professionals, mostly Doulas, but not necessarily Childbirth Educators. Might be worth checking out especially if you are restricted on time or money and are having a hard time making other classes work.
FYI - the Childbirth Collective is a non-profit and survives on donations. They are not pushy about it, but if you find the information that you were provided to be helpful, they always have a donation basket that you can drop some $$ in.
Married to my amazing wife 6/12/10
TTC since 6/11
Unmedicated IUI #1 - 6/28/11 - BFN
Unmedicated IUI #2 - 7/25/11 - BFN
Robotic Myomectomy (Fibroid Surgery) - 11/15/11
Unmedicated IUI #3 - 4/24/12 - BFN
Progesterone Supported Leuteal Phase IUI #4 - 6/21/12 - BFP!!
Baby Boy G Born 3/24/13
On to #2, are we crazy?
IUI #1 - 11/28/14 - BFP! Beta #1 (11DPO) 34, Beta #2 (13DPO) 101, Beta #3 (20DPO) 3043
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www.childbirthcollective.org
Married to my amazing wife 6/12/10
TTC since 6/11
Unmedicated IUI #1 - 6/28/11 - BFN
Unmedicated IUI #2 - 7/25/11 - BFN
Robotic Myomectomy (Fibroid Surgery) - 11/15/11
Unmedicated IUI #3 - 4/24/12 - BFN
Progesterone Supported Leuteal Phase IUI #4 - 6/21/12 - BFP!!
Baby Boy G Born 3/24/13
On to #2, are we crazy?
IUI #1 - 11/28/14 - BFP! Beta #1 (11DPO) 34, Beta #2 (13DPO) 101, Beta #3 (20DPO) 3043
Ultrasound at 6w4d shows a single, fluttering heartbeat. Say hello to Sticky Ricki!
On a related note, this is what I liked about the Amma Preparing for Childbirth class. It did a great job of informing women of what all their options were, and I felt that it was supportive of both med free and medicated births. During the class, we saw videos featuring women who chose both options. The women in our class were split about 50/50 for those who desired med free vs. medicated.