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laurid75

So here I wait I guess either to miscarry on my own or for my Dr to offer the DC next week. For those catching up me levels keep rising but I have what should be a 910 week pregnancies showing as an empty sac no fetal pole or heartbeat and it only measures around 5 weeks. This is after three weeks of ultrasounds and it has progressively gotten smaller. Last u/s is Tuesday precautionary I guess and then hopefully we can schedule DC...anyway goong out tonight with Dh and friends don't really feel like it but I've been in a funk for 3 weeks so prob good for me anyway I assume I'm ok to have a few drinks, right?

Kaselleck

I think it's whatever you're comfortable with. But I probably would. Sometimes IF drives me to drink;

jeannaqueena

I probably would bc I have been following your story and it doesnt seem likely that it would be viable at this point basically you are waiting to miscarry.  I hope my frankness is ok. But I think you deserve a night of fun.  Maybe just don't drink too heavy! 

I am so sorry it has come to this for you, but hope you can have fun tonight!!! 

kimberm0511

jeannaqueena:

I probably would bc I have been following your story and it doesnt seem likely that it would be viable at this point basically you are waiting to miscarry. nbsp;I hope my frankness is ok. But I think you deserve a night of fun. nbsp;Maybe just don't drink too heavy!nbsp;I am so sorry it has come to this for you, but hope you can have fun tonight!!!nbsp;

This exactly. I pretty much did this when I was waiting to miscarry. I don't even drink that often, but I thought why not.

laurid75

Thanks everyone! I had a couple of margaritas and was glad I did : I really didn't even want to go but I figured after 20 nights I laying on the couch I should join the ranks if the living again. I got home and saw a little blood gone this morning and no more and of course I worried that was the beginning of the actual miscarriage and was just a reminder of all this crap!