Some of you may remember me posting about my issues with my SIL.
Well she texted me today, and we chatted. I told her how I was doing, honestly, didn't sugar coat it.
She once again compared her miscarriage to the loss of my daughter. Her exact words
"Death is part of life and each of us grieve differently I have lost a child and I know that you probably don't think it's the same but I still feel that loss ever day of my life I just accept the pain and live"
I was shaken after reading this and did not respond. I haven't seen her in a year, and really don't care to ever see her. I can't comprehend how she can comepare these to very different loses. I want to writer her a thoughtful letter explaining my feelings, but think it might file the fire. DH wants me to just ignor her, I feel there is so much tension now, seeing her could cause a stand off or a break down. I just don't know what to do anymore.
Sorry for any weird formatting, I'm mobile.
BFP #1 Jan. 2011 - mmc Mar. 2011
BFP #2 Aug. 2011 - My sleeping angel Stella, born April 21, 2012