Third-Party Reproduction

~*~DE/DEmbryo/GC Check-in~*~

This group is open to anyone who has already gone through donor egg/donor embryo/gestational carrier, is in the process of it, or plans on doing it in the future.

 

This check-in posted each Tuesday.  If you?d like to be added to this group, please reply to this message, and I?ll make sure to add you for next week.  Welcome to the lurkers!  We know this can be a difficult journey, but we welcome you with open arms.  Let us know if we can answer any questions.

 

GRADUATES ARE WELCOME AND ENCOURAGED TO POST!

 

FACEBOOK GROUP: Yellow_Daisy has restarted a PRIVATE Facebook group (meaning no one can see it in your feed, that you are a member, etc.) for the ladies from IF and SAIF who are using/have used donor eggs/embryos or donor sperm and who are active and consistent posters on the IF, IFV, PAIF, or SAIF boards and the weekly check-in.  If you have been a part of thebump and the check-in and would like to join, please page Yellow_Daisy and ask for an invitation to the group.   

 

Status Update: Where are you currently with the DE/DEmbryo/ GC process?

 

QOTW: How do you deal with the injections for your cycle(s)? Does your DH/SO give them to you or do you do them yourself? Any hints on how to make it less painful/annoying?

 

In the 2ww

BabyVDM ? Probable diagnosis of age-related egg quality issue, cancer survivor! pursuing DE, contacted two West coast clinics, phone consult with PNWF, donor?s eggs added to frozen bank, conversation with clinic and they will hold 1-2 sets of eggs depending on number retrieved, phone consult rescheduled, repeat SA on 12/13, hoping for FET around the week of 2/12, u/s on 1/23, TSH OK, continuing on Lupron and estrogen patches, 3 beautiful frozen embryos! Lining looking good, transfer set for 4 PM last Thursday!    

 

erink1981 ? Pursuing DE after three losses and jumping into the domestic adoption process, Currently in DE IVF cycle (guarantee program), started Lupron on 1/13, met with MFM to discuss decisions about embryo transfer given other medical issues, recommended transferring 1 embryo, started on estrogen, DE retrieval anticipated for 2/13 or 2/14, lining looked good, donor started stims, retrieval set for last Friday, 3dt planned for Monday   

 

liz4paws ? No response to max stims with IVF, moving on to embryo adoption, signed up with Miracles Waiting, also on waiting list with RE for when they start their donor embryo program, accepted 5 frozen embryos from a woman in VA, working on paperwork and hope to have contract signed soon, found RE willing to do FET of embryos, frozen embryos arrived in Texas, started BCP?s and set to start Lupron, FET delayed from 2/8 to 2/11, Baseline and blood work complete, hoping for some insurance coverage for cycle  

 

Currently Cycling or on BCP?s or Lupron

ceemonkey ? High FSH on her side and Sertoli-cell only syndrome on DH's side, joined donor embryo program and submitted some picks, phone consult with a new double donor split cycle program completed, ordered blood work, officially left old clinic, in-person consult with new clinic complete, psych consult went well, accepted a profile, on Lupron and Vivelle, lining check on 11/30 went well, ET of 2 blasts completed on 12/13, low betas, m/c ((hugs)), accepted a new profile! On Lupron and Vivelle, Lining check on 2/22 and transfer planned for 2/28

 

happywifemomofone ? 100% OOP, considering shared DE cycle, DE consult scheduled at Advanced Fertility went well, would like to cycle in June or July, contemplating guarantee programs, delaying cycle due to financial considerations, selected donor, all preliminary testing is complete, meeting with psychologist arranged for early November, continuing to wait for cycle anticipated for early to mid February, selected a new donor who was then removed from the donor registry, selected fourth donor, PCP, lawyer, and RE appointments complete, on BCP?s for March cycle

 

indianasun ? 2 1/2 year-old son from cycle with OE, pursuing DE and started donor search, chose a donor and have an appointment with RE on 9/10, next steps are for donor to have medical and psychological testing, then will sign contracts, current donor straight off a successful cycle in December, started Lupron on 1/11 and Estrace on 2/7, retrieval estimated for 2/27, donor?s baseline u/s looking good!

 

moonaggie ? Pursuing anonymous donor eggs, transfer anticipated for 2/11, on Lupron and Estrace
  

reb259 ? DE consult schedule for 11/3, DE IVF#1 with frozen eggs did not work out (((hugs))) WTF and appointment with reproductive urologist scheduled, phone consult with RBA went well, meeting with psych and had more blood work done on 4/20, picked a donor! Finished BCP?s, planning travel to RBA for thaw and fert on 6/4, u/s on 5/30 to check lining, hoping it is 8+ transferred 2 low grade embies, home test negative ((Hugs)), on BCP?s, see RE on 1/31, cycle anticipated for mid-February  

 

Sophistikitty ? Slated for DE cycle in January, have selected donor and signed agency agreement, calendar received! Start Lupron second week of January, ET anticipated for the first week of February, started BCP?s, new diagnosis of adenomyosis, concern about donor cancelling some appointments    

 

Waiting to Cycle/Between Cycles

BeckyP005 ? 2 IUI?s both BFN?s, RE says DE is best option, not 100% sure about this option but beginning required testing, repeat mammogram needed, second mock cycle completed, lining looking good, SHG complete, put on thyroid meds, DH needing to get blood work done, on the DE waiting list! (6 months) - #10!  

  

ebdubbed ? Matched with a donor through an agency and waiting for her to be approved by clinic, need day two blood draws and unmedicated cycle before insurance will cover anything, officially matched and waiting for donor to fly to clinic for her work up, everything cleared up with insurance, small amount of coverage left, everything is moving forward! Donor doing testing, planning on a May transfer, also doing hail mary cycle with OE (EPP)  

 

glueck ? Pursuing DE through a clinic in Czech Republic, tentative transfer date of 10/6, filled out anonymous donor selection paperwork and matched with donor, mock cycle has begun, ER estimated for 9/24-25 and ET for 9/29-30, delayed because Essure scarring process was not complete, transfer set for 12/9! ER complete ? 9R, 7M, 6F, 5dt complete of 2 grade A blasts

 

Jen12573 ? History of several issues including high FSH, hyperthyroidism, uterine fibroids, POF, and mild endo, meeting with RE to discuss donor embryo program was on 8/10, feel very positively about program, on two DEmbryo wait lists, meeting with new donor embryo program on 2/25    

 

kbrodie06 ? Has a 3-year-old daughter, researching DE for second child, checking with doctors in the area and weighing options, secured a shared donor! Found a new donor after previous donor pregnant, started Lupron on 9/25, DE ER complete ? 17 eggs from shared cycle, all fertilized normally! 5dt on 10/21 of one 4AA embryo, BFP followed by miscarriage ((((HUGS))))     

 

krod2010 ? IVF #6 with identical twin as donor, 16 eggs retrieved but none fertilized ((((hugs)))), DE cycle, ET 1/16, transferred 3 blasts, nothing to freeze, BFP followed by m/c, cycling with the same donor again? 30 eggs retrieved, transferred two blasts, chemical pregnancy ((((HUGS))), 18 frozen embryos, hysteroscopy and laparoscopy complete, started delestrogen, FET on 6/15, Beta negative ((hugs)), planning to cycle again

 

may2806 ? DE IVF cycle was BFP, having bleeding episodes but heartbeat is good, NT scan went great but blood work showed high HCG and low Papp-A, amnio scheduled but not done, late m/c ((((HUGS)))), determined to be caused by a huge SCH behind the placenta, hysteroscopy showed uterus looks normal, waiting for next cycle with donor, completed Lupron Depot, now starting daily Lupron and IVIG, transfer 6/20 Beta 1 ? 261, beta 2 ? 546, 6 week u/s shows twins M/C ((hugs)), FET in December, things seem to be on track now

 

Mrs.McIrish ? Passed lining cycle and have been matched with a donor, ER initially anticipated for the second week in October, ovulated after stopped estrace, e2 producing cyst at baseline so delayed at least 3 weeks, started Lupron and baby aspirin, cleared baselines!, donor started stims on 10/13, ER estimated for 10/24, lining and E2 check on 10/19, donor stimming slowly, ER complete, low quality embryos and unsuccessful cycle (((HUGS))), DNA fragmentation test was normal, saline sono done, new donor selected with ER/ET anticipated for late January, hysteroscopy and D&C (polyp removal) completed on 12/5, started Lupron on 1/2, donor bailed on cycle! Selected new donor from those available, beta on 2/1

 

MrsT4 ? Fresh DE cycle resulted in chemical pregnancy (((HUGS))), four DE frosties, pursuing additional testing before FET planned for sometime this spring, immune panel and other blood work done, scrambling to get more labs run  

 

mtlaurel ? Pursuing DE after two failed IVF cycles, DE consult complete, DH?s SA numbers are up, chose a donor! started BCP?s on 4/3, another recipient selected donor! ER anticipated for 6/13 with ET on 6/18, started Lupron week of 5/17, started delestrogen on 5/28, dilapan done, next up is lining check, transfer of 2 grade A embryos, Beta on 6/28 C/P ((hugs)) working on improving DH?s issues, DH?s karyotyping normal, endo biopsy normal

 

rewdew ? Going straight to DE with ICSI after removal of one ovary and elevated FSH, also dealing with MFI, DE IVF #1 = BFN (((hugs))), 2 morulas frozen, planning on natural FET

stinkerbell6879 ? Beginning to look more seriously into DE, phone consult this week, looking into DE/Fresh vs. frozen, etc., consult scheduled, mock cycle monitoring and HSG complete, waiting on OBGyn appointment regarding fluid in uterus, DH needs to get SA done, psych eval and nurse consult complete, found out insurance will not cover frozen eggs, RE recommending endometrial biopsy, saline sono, and RLP

 

stinkerbell6879 ? Beginning to look more seriously into DE, phone consult this week, looking into DE/Fresh vs. frozen, etc., consult scheduled, mock cycle monitoring and HSG complete, waiting on OBGyn appointment regarding fluid in uterus, DH needs to get SA done  

 

strunella ? AMA, low AMH, three losses (((hugs))), initial DE consult complete, scheduled psych eval and meeting with nurse, looking into frozen eggs to minimize wait time and costs, still deciding on frozen vs. fresh and which clinic to use, several tests planned for 2/4 (saline sonogram, endometrial biopsy and repeat loss panel)

 

SuzanneJesse ? Secondary recipient in shared DE cycle (2nd IVF after failed cycle with OE), ER last Sunday, 10 fertilized normally, 9 still growing, 5dt of 2 embryos, beta on 11/11, 4 frozen embryos, C/P, WTF appointment, now looking at uterine and thyroid issues (thyroglobulin antibodies ? precursor to Hashimoto?s), will ask to be put on Synthroid, consulting with hematologist regarding the possibility of Lovenox, BA, and Folgard, SHG coming up, cycle likely in February

 

Looking into Options

BootsOrHearts ? Talking with RE about whether to use OE or DE, severe DOR and AMA  

 

brooklynesque ? May try one more cycle with OE but considering DE due to serious egg maturity issues, started looking at DE profiles and agencies

 

BzeetyD ? Considering DE after one more cycle with OE, researching clinics and looking for databases/registries that offer semi-open donation, WTF consult scheduled to discuss cycling with OE and possibly DE

 

hrtbreakr ? Has been going through IVF/Infertility for 4 years, told DE is the best option   

 

kflynn81 ? Currently cycling with OE, hoping to cycle again by July, starting to research DE options, getting several second opinions, phone consult with CCRM on 2/21


~*~Graduates~*~

2MamazInSeattle ? DE cycle, ET anticipated for December 9-15, found lower price for Follistim, suppression check on 11/6 and everything looked good, signed consents and made payment, DS delivered, , lining looked good, donor started stims on 11/25, ER ? 19R, 14M, 11F, 5dt completed! Transferred one blast and have 3 frosties, positive HPT?s ? BFP! Saw the heartbeat! NT scan and cell-free DNA test on 2/8  

 

amethysgrrl ? Pursuing DE, have selected a clinic and a donor, planning for a June cycle, successfully completed evaluation cycle and had SHG done, got calendar! Began Lupron on 5/22, Cleared to begin cycle! ER planned between 6/14 and 6/17 with ET between 6/17 and 6/22, transfer complete, Beta 7/2 ? BFP! Twins! First OB appt. was on 8/6, two boys! A/S scheduled for 10/17, baby boys born 1/15/13 at 32 1/2 weeks    

 

ashleyann82 ? Chose a new donor after first one backed out, shared cycle, DE eSET on 6/19, 4 frozen, BFP! Heartbeat is looking great on ultrasounds, baby looked great on a/s, it?s a BOY!, failed GTT, appointments set up with RN and dietician, going to start exercising more and watching diet, hit 35/35 milestone

 

bluebabka ? DE IVF #1 - 13 eggs retrieved, ET of 2 blasts on 2/19, BFP! First u/s showed two but follow-up showed one beautiful baby with a heartbeat of 174, baby boy born 11/3 via C-section, planning on FET in April or May

 

BRSAugust20 ? BFP (singleton)! J is here! Contemplating next steps regarding frozen embryo, on RESOLVE parent panels!

 

Bubs711 ? Selected donor! Sonogram as follow-up from mammogram showed fibrocystic breasts, biopsy of both breasts on 2/16 ? mass was drained, TSH came back high, went on Synthroid, ET of 2 day 5 embryos, beta #1 = 477, beta #2=1,777, first u/s on 4/25 showed one heartbeat, EDD is 12/12/12, it?s a girl!

 

chicagobride_07 ? DE-IVF cycle in July was a BFN, follow-up testing showed elevated lupus anti-coagulant (hematologist thinks it was an aberration), blood work - waiting for results, pap, mammogram - normal, TSH high - referred to a medical endocrinologist, everything came back normal, started delestrogen in preparation for FET, everything looked good with lining check and blood work, ET of 2 blasts, somewhat low betas, Betas continued to rise! Heart heartbeat at u/s! Bleeding scare but everything still looking good, U/S at just over 9 weeks looked good! Tapering off of PIO, Verifi test looked good, it?s a girl!

 

dreamalotmp ? DOR, AMA, DE IVF + ICSI cycle, chose donor, cycle planned for November, donor dropped out of the program but selected a new one, ER and ET complete, BFP! Beta #1 = 243, Beta #2 = 489, first u/s showed one healthy developing yolk sac, everything looked good on first trimester screening, diagnosed with gestational diabetes, great anatomy scan on 3/5 showed a girl!  First monthly growth u/s complete, baby looking great, baby daughter H. born on 8/1  

 

hooliface ? DE cycle, transferred 2 embryos (8 cell compounding grade B+ and an 8 cell grade B) on day 3, BFP!   

 

Imanurse03 ? DE IVF #1 - ER on 5/31, ET on 6/4, 16 frozen embryos! BFP! It?s a BOY! Complications including low amniotic fluid levels, IUGR, welcomed baby boy on 1/18/12! Making some decisions about timing of FET for baby #2

 

jcath ? Donor egg cycle with frozen egg bank, chose donor and back-up, had endo biopsy, 5dt on 1/26, beta #1 = 118, betas have been good, first u/s on 2/21 showed identical twin girls! Arrived safely on 9/2/11, talking more each day, officially donated remaining frozen embryo

 

jhleap ? Has a toddler from DE, did an FET in November and got a BFP, expecting baby #2 in early August, first OB appointment scheduled for week of 1/16, baby girl born 8/10!  

 

JM1977 ? DE IVF #1 = BFN, DE IVF #2 - eSET on day 5 (12/15/10), beta on 12/28 = 1,035, beta on 12/30 = 2,234, first OB appointment showed baby measuring right on track, baby girl M arrived on 8/30/11! TTC #2: Mock ET, sonogram, and blood work on 11/12, transfer of 1 frozen embryo on 1/21, beta on 2/4 = 5,213

 

koyn ? Cycled at RBA, transferred 2 embryos on 9/19, froze 1, BFP!! Beta #3 was 14,621, first u/s showed TWINS! 1st MFM appointment and saw both babies dancing around

 

LBR_NJ/LisaBRM ? BFP! Baby girl Alana arrived on 12/9/09! FET scheduled for 12/10 but embryo did not survive the thaw (((hugs)))

 

lenebene ? Split DE cycle underway, on estrogen, donor started stims, ER on 4/25, ET is done - BFP! Beta #1 = 314, Beta #2 = 664, u/s showed one bean, u/s #2 saw heartbeat again, released to OB, team green!

 

lhcooper ? Cycling with DE at out-of-state clinic, ER 12/5 - 16 eggs retrieved, got 5 in split cycle, 4 mature, 3 fertilized, 5dt of one embryo on 12/10, beta #1=413, beta #2= 3952, first u/s showed a healthy baby with heartbeat of 138 bpm, second u/s also went great, CVS on 2/14 showed healthy baby GIRL! Starting monthly growth scans, beautiful big baby girl arrived 8/31/12!   

 

lisaiesha ? DE cycle with an anonymous, proven donor, transferred one Day 5 blast on 3/12 ? BFP! Due date was 11/29

 

lunatwo ? September cycle cancelled due to ovulating on Lupron, DE IVF#1 - ER was 11/11, 13 eggs, 6 fertilized, 5 B-grade embryos, ET on 11/16, BFP! Beta #1 = 485, Beta #2 = 2,495, first u/s showed twins!! A boy and a girl!   

 

lynn0926 ? Pursuing DE out of state, found a local clinic willing to do monitoring and submit to insurance, started mock cycle on 4/2, accepted into guarantee program and lining looks good, chose a new donor, donor started stims on 6/8, 25 fertilized embies! Transfer on the 6/28, HPTs+, Beta 2500! 2nd beta at 13dp5dt was 6131, first u/s showed TWINS! Had NT scan, everything going well, it?s 2 boys!

 

njohnson1972 ? Last attempt with OE, transferred 2 embryos on 11/6, BFP!  Jack is here! IVF cycle with OE unsuccessful, currently on a break and pursuing DE during the summer

 

PetraStonegirl ? Fresh-frozen DE cycle in late July, had scar tissue and uterine septum resection in May, has 3 five day frosties! sFET was cancelled due to insufficient lining, restarting new cycle, on delestrogen, lining check went well, starting PEO, sFET went well, BFP! Beta #1=291, betas still climbing strongly, many u/s with RE before graduating to OB, NT scan results looked great, diagnosed with placenta previa, but it has now cleared! Dealing with labile hypertension, C-section no later than 5/13, scale prompted L&D visit but everything is OK

 

RachelD83 ? BFP on 2nd FET (single embryo transfer) - boy! Jonathan born on 12/8 at 38w3d, he's starting to crawl!  

 

rebaann ? Two pregnancies from IUI that ended in miscarriages and D&C?s (((hugs))), now pursuing DE, mock ET on 4/12, everything looked good on repeat HSG, repeat S/A, mammogram, social work consult, injection training, mock EEP cycle, picked a donor! Transferred 2 embryos, BFP! Beta #1 = 820, Betas 2 and 3 were great, u/s on 10/1 showed one baby measuring right on track with a heartbeat of 125, first OB appointment on 10/22 uneventful, everything looked good at NT scan, put on baby aspirin because of blood pressure

 

sekura ? Had WTF for IVF#1 and decided that DE is best option, cycled at RBA?s frozen egg program, 3 out of 5 donor eggs fertilized, 5dt of 1 blast on 5/12, beta is 5/22, also have 2 frozen embryos ? BFP! Beta #1=306, Beta #2-818, NT scan and b/w all looked good

 

shyntrue ? Donor selected! Surgery to have septum removed, cycle postponed to December, had second SHG and uterus looked good, DE IVF#1 - 3dt of 2 embryos on 12/10, BFP! Beta #1=890, Beta #2=10,967, first u/s on 1/11 showed TWINS! NT scan scheduled for 2/24, two trips to the ER and an overnight hospital stay, extensive u/s showed (most likely) 2 boys! Failed 1-hour glucose test and going back for 3-hour, Boys have arrived!

 

strudel82 ? Success with DE cycle in Dec., pregnant with twin girls! Girls born early, they are home!  2-week NICU appointment and they are doing great, considering another DE cycle for a sibling, going to be a gestational carrier for another couple! Met the IPs, screenings coming up and hoping for April cycle (FET), screenings and then contracts planned

TTC with DOR, low morphology, fertilization issues
IVF#1 Oct 2009 (CCRM) - BFN
IVF#2 March 2010 - Poor response/cancelled
DE IVF#1 Aug 2010 - BFN
DE IVF#2 Dec 2010 - Transferred 1, 2 frozen - BFP!
TTC#2 FET Jan 2013 - Transferred 1 - BFP!

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Re: ~*~DE/DEmbryo/GC Check-in~*~

  • Good Luck to those in the 2ww and big hugs to those that need them.

    JM I see that you had your u/s today? Hope all went well.

    Still on waiting list but just wanted to say I like this question and have my pen and journal ready to write down all the great tips of shot giving. MH just said last night too bad I can't get a "practice" shot first to see if I can handle it before putting down rest of deposit...

    ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
    Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive.  Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)

    DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN  DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!


     

     

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  • Update: nothing new, just waiting for my lining check on Friday. I am nervous because I fly out to my clinic and we're getting ready for a major snowstorm. Ugh! I hope my flight doesn't get delayed or cancelled. 

    QOTW: My DH is a major wimp when it comes to needles, so I do all my shots myself. The hCG trigger and the PIO are a little awkward but doable. Everything else is pretty easy. With PIO I have read about and tried all the various tips out there, but the only thing I do is warm up the vial of PIO before injecting it. Then I just massage the area for awhile afterwards. 


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    SAIF Always Welcome
    TTC #1 since Fall 2008
    High FSH, Sertoli Cell Only Syndrome
    Unsuccessful with my OE, moving to DE + DS
    DE + DS IVF #1: Dec 2012 - BFP, nothing at first u/s 
    DE + DS IVF #2: 3/14/13 - c/p
    DE + DS IVF #3: 7/12/13 - BFP! Finally! No heartbeat at 7w1d.
    DE + DS IVF #4: 5/16/14 - BFN
    DE + DS IVF #5: 9/3/14 - BFP at 5.5dp5dt, Beta 1 @ 9dp5dt: 438; hb of 133 at 6w5d, no hb at 7w1d
    DE + DS IVF #6: 3/3/15 - BFN on HPTs through 7dp5dt, Beta 1 @ 8dp5dt: 19, Beta 2 @ 10dp5dt: 76, nothing at u/s

    You miss 100% of the shots you don't take - Wayne Gretzky 
  •  Good luck to all those in the 2ww and ((hugs)) to all that need them!!

     

    Update: we did a 3dt of 2 embies this past Monday. We transferred an 8 cell and a 9 cell. We should hear if we have any frosties by tomorrow. Beta is scheduled for 3/4. The 2ww is killing me and I'm only 3 days in :( I'm not feeling any symptoms which I know is normal. I'm starting to wonder when the progesterone effects will kick in. I'm not one for patience so I'm sure ill start POAS monday-ish :) 

    QOTW:  When I was just on the lupron I did it myself in the stomach. Now that we are on PIO shots, I have DH give them. My first one was this past Friday and I don't think I massaged it enough and I did end up with a terrible bruise and it was very sore the next day, but they've gotten better since then. 

    I mark the spot I want it to go wih a fingernail mark (cause I'm a contol freak like that). I wipe it with an alcohol pad and lay face down on he bed. Meanwhile DH warms the shot in his palm. I hug a pillow and DH injects. If it stings too much I tell him to slow down. About 1/2 hour after the shot, I get in a hot shower and massage my butt. Then when we go to bed I have DH rub it again :) it helped when I sat on a heating pad, but now I'm paranoid it will raise my temp too much and over-cook my embies ;) hoping all these needle sticks are for the greater good!!!!!!

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    DD conceived with no issues, but born at 33 weeks due to PPROM
    loss #1-06/2010 loss #2-2/2011 loss #3-5/2011
    07/2011 dx with a Balanced Translocation
    9/2011-decided on domestic infant adoption 10/2011-signed with an agency and getting ready for homestudy :)
    12-2012-after being with our agency over a year and only shown to EM once we decided to talk with RE about DEIVF. Thru a crazy sequence of events we decided to go for it and we picked a donor MUCH quicker than anticipated
    1/13/2013-started lupron with anticipated transfer in mid Feb.
    ER 2/15 resulted in 15 eggs/10M/6F with ICSI.
    2/18 transferred 1-8cell and 1-9cell embie. Snuggle in little embies.
    positive on HPT 6dp3dt. Could this really be IT?!?! Beta 14dp3dt=2440. U/S scheduled for 3/20. Pregnancy Ticker
  • erink - I know what you mean about the 2ww! 

    Update:  I'm 6(or is 7)dp5dt.  Had 'huge' boob changes immediately after transfer, but that went away about 2 days later.  They still sort of hurt but only when you touch them.  Yesterday we switched from morning PIO to evening, I had a small bit of brown spotting and a lot of cramping last night.  I'm trying to stay positive and believe that it is implantation spotting, or just a little blood from the transfer. 

    I went to my family Dr yesterday to follow up on a routine MRI I had the week before transfer.  They found something that needs further investigation to rule out cancer.  It wasn't what I expected.  I'm more than a little freaked out.  I mean I know it's probably nothing, but it has to be investigated so of course I'm castrophizing and imagining all the worst case scenarios.   The fact is, that it is probabaly nothing to worry about. 

    Beta was set for Sunday but lab is only open Monday (so I'm going to poas) on Sunday. 

    QOTW:  I let DH take care of most of my shots and meds. We did the Lupron in the evenings.  It was actually a lot easier and less painful for me to give myself the lupron shots, but DH did them anyway because I wanted him to get comfortable.

    When it came time to start the patches DH put them on at first it as because we were putting them on my back. Now just because I like it when he does. 

    PIO were a different matter, I was freaked out by the needle and couldn't image trying to do it myself.  So DH gives me the PIO.   It actually works out pretty well.  I ice before the shot and I heat afterwards.  DH then massages it for a few minutes.  We had to start them in the mornings for the first 6 days.  DH is not at his best in the morning, the day before transfer he only gave me .5cc instead of the full 1cc so I had to have 2 shots that day, and then one the next morning.  So we switched to evenings.  Which meant I need to have .5 in the morning and again in the evening the day before yesterday and then full cc last night.  I've tolerated it quite well, I have not bruising but have to admit as the days go on, my butt is getting a little tender.   It's not as bad as I thought it would be.

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    BFP#1 04/12/201
    1 - fetal demise - MC 05/28/2011
    BFP#2 10/14/2011 - fetal demise - MC 12/13/2011
    BFP#3 05/30/2012 - fetal demise - MC 07/23/2012
    IVF#1 02/14/2013 - 2 Beautiful Blasts transferred
    BFP#4 02/25/2013 - BFP - MC and ectopic 03/06/2013

    IFV#2 07/02/2013 -BFP#5 - 07/07/2013
    1st Beta 07/11/2013 - 483 (9dp5dt) - 2nd Beta 07/13/2013 1006 (11dp5dt)
    1st U/S 07/31/2013 - TWINS! "The Minions"
    IVF#3 BFP#6 09/01/2015 6dp5dt
    1st Beta 09/05/2015 - 105 - 2nd Beta 09/08/2015 335
    1st U/S 09/22/2015 - .......

  • Becky-hoping that your name gets to the top of the shared cycle list quickly.

    JM-Hope that your ultrasound went well

    Ceemonkey-GL with lining check-hope that the weather doesn't interfere with your travel plans

    BabyDVM-Hope that you can stop googling and catastrophizing about the MRI that needs further follow up, I always try to remember that catastrophizing is never going to change the outcome on anything.  Hope that you are right and it is nothing.  GL when you POAS on Sunday.

    Moonaggie-We will likely have similar calendars.  My DE retrieval is planned for 4/2-4/4.

    McIrish-Please know that if you are lurking, I am thinking of you. Big (((hugs)))

    Status Update: Where are you currently with the DE/DEmbryo/ GC process?  We have our calendar.  Started second pack of BCP today.  Lupron starts on 3/8, Baseline is on 3/18.  Expected ER is between 4/2-4/4.  Transfer likely between 4/5-4/9.

     

    QOTW: How do you deal with the injections for your cycle(s)? Does your DH/SO give them to you or do you do them yourself? Any hints on how to make it less painful/annoying?

    I do my own injections-I am a nurse and my husband is legally blind-and is too gentle of a soul to ever stick me with a needle.   Lupron is easy peasy, PIO no so much.  My REs nurse taught me to stand against the doorjam-cannot do it that way though.  I just twist around, stick-pull back, inject and then apply pressure.  Have always taken warm bath after PIO shots and never had any problems. 

     

    TTC since 10/09 Me-43 DH-44 RE and testing 10/10-11/10, Recommending IVF 1/11 New RE AMA and DOR-DH low motility IVF #1.1 cancelled 3/11 due to poor response IVF #1.2 May 2011, one perfect 8-cell embryo, 3dt-BFN, IVF #2.1 Converted to IUI d/t poor response. New RE 9/2011. IVF 2.2 completed using HGH,EPP,DHEA, Q-10 and accupuncture. Transferred one 8-cell, grade one embryo on 10/19. BFP 10/31/11 Chemical pregancy on 11/2/11. Started stims for IVF #3, our final try, on 12-2-11. ET on 12/18. Transferred 3 Grade A embryos-BFFN Planning DE IVF, late March/early April- Donors ER expected to be 4/2-4/4. PAIF/SAIF welcome
  • Update: My ultrasound went well!  Everything looked right on track.  I'm very relieved.  Thanks for all the support!

    QOTW: My DH was doing my shots until I had to go out to Maryland for my transfer so had to do them by myself.  At that time, I just got used to doing them again, so have been giving them to myself.  I do PIO every night and Del Estrogen every third night.  I'm definitely getting sick of it, and I have tough areas now where the needle doesn't want to go in.  Sometimes I have to try a couple of different places. 

    TTC with DOR, low morphology, fertilization issues
    IVF#1 Oct 2009 (CCRM) - BFN
    IVF#2 March 2010 - Poor response/cancelled
    DE IVF#1 Aug 2010 - BFN
    DE IVF#2 Dec 2010 - Transferred 1, 2 frozen - BFP!
    TTC#2 FET Jan 2013 - Transferred 1 - BFP!

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    Update: My ultrasound went well!  Everything looked right on track.  I'm very relieved.  Thanks for all the support!

    So happy to see this update JM!!!  Congrats!! Big Smile

    I don't have much of an update on me...still waiting for all of my immune testing results to come in and then they will schedule the phone consult, so the actual date is still TBD.  I pretty much knew I wouldn't be cycling in March, but I'm still hoping that April is a possibility.

    QOTW:  My husband does all of my I/M shots (including PIO).  I guess I have a lot of padding back there (LOL), so the individual shots don't bother me too much (sometimes I barely feel them).  However, I will say that by the end of my last cycle, I was starting to have back pain, which I think was related to all of the I/M shots.  Lucky me, some nights I had two I/M shots (delestrogen and PIO), so we did one shot per cheek! 

     

    Me: AMA, DOR, undetectable AMH, carrier of SMA, MTHFR homozygous C677T, high cytokines, low IGg B cells, Factor XIII V34l mutation, High Anti-Phosphatidylethanolmine, borderline hypothyroid and mildly insulin resistant.

     

    MH: No known issues, aside from MTHFR.

     

    Recommendations from RI: LIT, Humira, IVIG, Lovenox, Baby Aspirin, Folic Acid, Low-dose synthroid and Metformin.

     

    Currently taking:  Pre-Natal vitamins, Foltanx, Low-dose synthroid and Metformin. 

     

    When cycling also taking: Baby Aspirin, Lovenox, Humira and IVIG.

     

    TTC since 7/11/09..with medical intervention starting in 2010, including 4 failed IVF's and 6 failed IUI's...only "success" was a chemical pregnancy in 11/2012 (credited to use of DE).

    FET #1 (11th cycle) on 8/23/13 = BFN.

    FET #2 (12th cycle) Transfer of last two (day 6) donor egg blasts on 1/22/14 = BFP, EDD = 10/10/14 (please stick little BOY!)

     

    My favorite breed:

     

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    ***PAIF/SAIF always welcome***

  • JM, congrats on your great u/s!  Very exciting. 

    Would you please add me for next time? BFP after first DE cycle.  5dt of one embie resulted in our baby girl who is still baking and is expected to arrive June 16, 2013. Our donor will cycle for us again in April.  We are hoping for frosties this time around, which will be our last no matter the outcome. 

    Baby girl Lila born 2013.
    Baby boy Henry born 2015.
    Expecting our capstone baby (boy) early March 2018.
  • I'm a GC carrying 1 boy for an amazing couple.  I'm due 05/06. 

    QOTW:
    When I was on Lupron I would give myself most of the shots.  The PIO I made DH give me.  They didn't really hurt, but there's no way I could shove that huge needle in my rear.


    GSx1 - 05/13/2013
    GSx2 for T&B - EDD 6/21/2015 - They're having a GIRL!

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