I'd like to preface by saying that I have absolutely no problem that I have DD full time. I expect one day, I will anyway.
However, H has been talking about getting or seeing DD for three weeks now and nothing has happened. First he talked about running here last Sunday to see DD and get the last of his stuff. Then it was he was going to take her this coming weekend. He never came Sunday and now he has to work Saturday.
I guess I'm okay if he has to work,apparently someone is having a baby and will be off for 6 weeks or something, but he told me his boss was cool about him taking his weekends of that he gets DD. Well that's obviously not the case.
I just wish he wouldn't talk so damn big about wanting to see her and start his weekends and then not follow thru. It makes me wonder if he really was the problem when it came to SD's visitation years ago.
THEN - last night I gave the phone to DD. she was across the room and I was not a part of the conversation between DD and H. I think he thought I had left the room. I stayed quiet. When he asked DD where mommy was, she said, "Right there." but I kept quiet. He wanted DD to take the phone to me. Only DD didn't and I didn't go to take it. So he talks to her as I am working on the computer. I keep my ear open.
When DD does finally bring me the phone, H says that DD asked when he was coming home. (WTF? Really?) She didn't say that. I told him I was present the whole time and I did not hear that out of DD's mouth. He swore up and down that she said it twice clear as a bell. Even though I told him I heard the entire conversation. I find it interesting that miraculously he can now understand her after complaining for months now how he can't understand a word she says.
For the love of God, he is using our daughter to get to me. EPIC FAIL.
I am not humored in the slightest by this lame attempt.