I have been with DH 7yrs8mo but only married 7mo. I am 6w5d. SD is 12 and SS is 8. They live with BM but spend 25 percent of their time with us per court ordered parenting plan and we always attend extracirricular activities. We have good relationships with them but are worried about how they will react to the news. In the past they have both said they don't want us to have a child together. We have told them nothing would change our current relationship with them and we will still love them and be there for them just as much as before baby. How have other people told their SKs and what reaction did you get?