2 Questions

aimee413

My dd is 12 weeks today and she is FF.

1 how long is LO awake between naps? Does it vary thru out the day?
Sometimes my dd is ready for a nap after only 1 hr. and sometimes longer but 1hr just seems to soon. I won't make her stay awake because I don't want her overtired but just wondering if any other 3 month olds nap so soon too?

2 At what age can a LO become attached? Is 3 month too early?
I am a SAHM so I am always with my dd. its only me who puts her to bed and i do all the night feedings. My dh does help when he is not working and will spend time with her. BUT today I had some errands to run and he was with her alone and she was extra fussy for him. Not napping good or even eating good. She eats for him fine when I'm here?!? Now I'm nervous cuz my SIL is babysitting for me tomorrow for about 4 hours. I really hope she is not fussy for her the whole time.

irishprincess135

My LO is 11 weeks old today and she is up for about an hour to an hour and a half at a time, anything beyond that she is so fussy so that's normal for her to be napping like that. The other thing is said that they can't be "spoiled" until 6 months old. I have the same issue with my LO, she is very fussy for my husband because he doesn't really hold her during the day and I feed her and put her down, but now that I'm going back to work he has to do a lot more so I think with some time alone with just him will get her used to him and it will get better, my first day back to work and away from her my husband said she screamed and cried for 90 mins straight! That made me feel awful but everyone tells me it will get better! Hope that helps!