SKs call me by my first name. They've been told that if they choose to call me "mom", it's up to them. We are in no way asking them to do so. Anytime I write anything from their dad and I, I always sign it "Love Daddy and M". Same goes for the Valentine's Day gifts they opened this morning. They were signed from Daddy and M. When I came downstairs to take SKs to school this morning, both SKs gave me cards they had just made and they signed them to "mom". Neither kid calls me mom but they'll refer to me as such at school etc. In the past, SD has written poems and little letters referring to me as being her mom but this is the first time either has addressed anything to me that way. I feel kind of weird now. In the future, should I address things to them from "Daddy and Mom"? Or keep using "Daddy and M"? Has anyone else been in this situation? If so, what did you do?
Happily married to my Snorkelbutt - 07/31/10
BFP #1 09/02/11 M/C 09/12/11 8w6days BFP #2 07/18/12 Baby S born on his EDD 03/23/13