DH and I are expecting (again) and even though we arent anouncing just yet (bc of our recent loss) we did tell a select few (ones we dont mind untelling god forbid it gets to that). Anyway, one of the comments was that I will be a new mom and DH a new dad. Yes DH has a son, but by the time baby arrives SS will be 10. The new dad comment was made in the context of "you havent had a baby in the house in so long it will be a new experience all over again." I wasnt offended by this and neither was DH. We dont feel it is un-acknowledging DH as a dad to SS. Would you be upset by it?
BFP #1 11/07/2012 EDD 07/09/2013 M/C 11/22/2012
BFP #2 02/05/2013 EDD 09/19/2013
Arrived via c-section 09/27/2013