After 3 failed IVF attempts and a pending international adoption that seems to be going nowhere, DH and I finally decided to proceed with DE IVF. We searched through numerous egg donor databases, and we finally agreed on a donor! She had great results in her prior donation, so we are crossing our fingers that everything works out.
Now we are in the process of reviewing the agency agreements. We are working with a California based agency but a donor who lives in Texas. If you are in Texas and worked with an out of state egg donor agency, which attorney did you work with to review the egg donor agency contract and to draft the agreement with the egg donor?
Re: Intro and Attorney Recommendations?
I wish you lots of luck.
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Me (32) DH (36) - Finding our way to baby #1
Me: POF/DOR - AMH <0.16, heterozygous c677t MTHFR, insulin resistant and gluten intolerant
DH: Severe MFI
12/2/11 - IUI #1- BFN
8/1/12 - IVF #1 - Zero response from max stims (600iu intramuscularly)
My ovaries are just for decoration
12/6/12 - Adopted five embryos that had been frozen for over ten years!
2/11/13 - DEmbryo FET #1 Thawed four, sadly two didn't survive. Transferred two beautiful blasts.
2/16/13 - First BFP of my life @ 6dp5dt! EDD 10/30/13
3/27/13 - After beta and u/s hell, no heartbeat ever detected. D&C at 9w1d.
6/5/13 - Adopted four new embryos that had been frozen for seven years!
9/12/13 - DEmbryo FET #2. Thawed and transferred two beautiful blasts
9/17/13 - BFP @ 5dp6dt! EDD 05/31/14
9/29/13 - m/c @ 5w1d.
11/19/13 - DEmbryo FET #3. Thawed and transferred one blast from each batch. Wow!
11/23/13 - BFP @ 4dp6dt! EDD 8/7/13
Beta #1 @ 13dp6dt - 522 Beta #2 @ 16dp6dt - 1373
6w5d ultrasound showed one perfect baby with a beautiful heartbeat of 134bpm!
Snowflake baby is a girl!
Our beautiful Snowflake girl arrived on July 22, 2014!
My embryo adoption blog: Wishing on a Snowflake
Are you planning to do donor egg or donor embryo? Unless CA has different laws, an attorney is not required for donor egg.
3 failed IVF with OE and 2 failed frozen DE cycles
Last fresh hail mary DE cycle starting Feb 2013
PAIF/SAIF always welcome
Thanks for the referral liz4paws!! Good luck to you too!
reb259--we are doing egg donation
GL! We used an agency in Massachusetts. PP is right- an attorney is optional (at least in my state). Our agency had agreements pre-drafted which we utilized. I did have an attorney in our family review (this was not his specialty!) but in the end we had no changes.
We were given referrals to attorneys if we wanted them (one for us, one for donor)- the cost was around $1,100 (which we chose to forgo).
DOR and AMA
2/12-5/12: 4 IUI cycles = all BFN;
7/12: DE IVF # 1 (with ICSI)- 20R, 16M, 14F, 5DT of 2 blasts; 6 frosties = BFN;
Lupus anticoagulant initially high, then found to be normal on hematology consult;
Follow up testing in September all clear;
Started synthroid for "high normal" TSH;
FET # 1- late October 2012- BFP on FRER; beta # 1- 21(low), beta # 2- 48 (still low), beta # 3- 132, beta # 4- 1,293; beta # 5- 5,606; last beta- over 100,000. First u/s 11/21- heard heartbeat
12/12- Officially an OB patient!
Level 2 ultrasound at 20 weeks shows vasa previa and VCI
Referral to MFM and mandatory c section for delivery
Beautiful baby girl born at 34 weeks
Finally home after 15 day NICU stay!
Trying for sibling: FET # 2- May 2014; beta 5/31, BFN
FET #3, early July 2014; beta 7/14, BFN
DE IVF # 2- August 2014; 14R, 13M, 11F, 5dt of 2 blasts (3 AA), 5 frosties = BFN
FET #4- December 2014, yet another BFN
Dr. KK work up shows borderline uterine blood flow, elevated NK cells, and MTHFR mutation (homozygous for c677t)
Added baby aspirin, prednisone, supplements, Metanx, and intralipids
Switched to large clinic for final attempt; had endometrial receptivity testing in January; FET March 2015 = yet another BFN
Likely OAD- NBC
I am pretty sure no attorney is required for egg donor cycles. I have done one in Atlanta and 2 in TX and never had to...I am also from MI and I have a friend doing donor egg and I am almost 100% sure no attorney required. I fyou were using donor embryos you would.
3 failed IVF with OE and 2 failed frozen DE cycles
Last fresh hail mary DE cycle starting Feb 2013
PAIF/SAIF always welcome
Our agency was in MA and we had to have an attorney for both us and our egg donor. Our clinic wouldn't let us proceed until they got confirmationfrom our agency that we both had signed the donor contract.
We used an attorney out of NJ but is admitted to the MA bar. Good luck!!!!