After I saw several of you mention reading "An Exact Replica of a Figment of my Imagination," I bought it and read it today. I found it to be a very cathartic read, and I was wondering if there are any other books out there you've found to be helpful in your loss journey.
Silent Grief by Clara Hinton Grieving the Child I Never Knew by Kathe Wunnenberg Help, Comfort and Hope by Hannah Lothrop Our Baby, Our Love, Our Loss by Kathi Evans Remembering for Good by Cath Duncan An Exact Replica of a Figment of My Imagination by Elizabeth McCracken Empty Cradle Broken Heart by Deborah L. Davis Naming the Child by Jenny Schroedel A Grief Observed by C.S.Lewis I Will Carry You by Angie Smith Safe in the Arms of God by John F. MacArthur We Were Going to Have a Baby But We Had an Angel Instead by Pat Schueibert (for children)
I really liked Empty Cradle Broken Heart. I thought it was very well written and helpful. I liked that it wasn't all happy stories about making it through, that really helped to validate all the bad things I am feeling.
TTC since May 2011
Provera x3 late 2011, no natural response. (Previous BCP for 12 years).
Dx PCOS April 2012.
Clomid x 4 - no response.
First FSH/Ovidrel cycle early Aug 2012 - 18 days of injections, slow growth, erratic estrogen levels, triggered Aug 21st.
BFP Sept 4th and Sept 7th!
7wk US Sept 28th - triplets!
Perfect triplets lost at 20 weeks due to incompetent cervix. Allison Grace, James Alexander and Colin Gregory forever in our hearts!
IVF #1 10/11/13 - canceled before retrieval.
IVF# 2 11/28/13 - retrieval on Turkey Day! Hyperstim - no transfer
FET #1 2/4/14 - miscarriage @ 9 weeks (Trisomy 6)
FET #2 6/8/14 - healthy normal baby! Due date 2/25/15
so far I have only read Empty Cradle Broken Heart and I really liked it. I have these in my stack to read: They Were Still Born, A Silent Sorrow, When Pregnncy Fails, and A Piece Of My Heart
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Re: Reading List
Here are the books recommended in the loss blog:
Silent Grief by Clara Hinton
Grieving the Child I Never Knew by Kathe Wunnenberg
Help, Comfort and Hope by Hannah Lothrop
Our Baby, Our Love, Our Loss by Kathi Evans
Remembering for Good by Cath Duncan
An Exact Replica of a Figment of My Imagination by Elizabeth McCracken
Empty Cradle Broken Heart by Deborah L. Davis
Naming the Child by Jenny Schroedel
A Grief Observed by C.S.Lewis
I Will Carry You by Angie Smith
Safe in the Arms of God by John F. MacArthur
We Were Going to Have a Baby But We Had an Angel Instead by Pat Schueibert (for children)
DS1 - 7/2011, DD 12/2012, DS2 - 4/2014, MMC - 12/2015