So we set up the bassinet at the end of the bed...and the cat has been thanking us profusely for finally getting her such a comfy perch to watch over us from.
We're going to use a spray bottle filled with water I think, but are there better, tried-and-true methods to keep the cat away from climbing into the crib, bassinet, etc? She's a maternal, nurturing cat, at worst I'm pretty sure she'd just get in there and give the baby a tongue bath, but still I'd like to train her to keep away from baby's sleeping spots before LO gets here.
Thanks in advance for the advice.
Re: Question for moms with cats...
I've heard this works well. Personally (not trying to flame here), I think the spray bottle thing is cruel. But that's just me.
I actually posted a similar concern to the AP board a couple of days ago about bedsharing with pets. Apparently, not many cats really care for newborns, and it's not usually much to worry about, based on the replies I got.
Sorry, I am inept and cannot make it clicky...
https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/71848557.aspx
My cats laid in everything when it came home before my son was born (high chair, stroller, cradle, you name it), but once he got here, they steered clear of him. As for what you can do beforehand, I'd either try the spray bottle or aluminum foil. Or just put the bassinet away until the baby gets here, and then she'll probably avoid it.
My female cat is also very maternal and is a groomer, but she didn't ever lick him or anything. My male cat actually howled and paced back in forth in front of his room when my son cried when we first brought him home and I flipped out, thinking it was some kind of weird behavioral thing, but that happened exactly once.
We did put a baby gate on the door to DS's room, and that has kept them out of the room. I feel better about that because I don't want their hair in the room, since you never know about allergies.
FWIW, I spent a gross amount of time worrying about my cats before my son got here, but they've adjusted. Now they actually let him pet them and rub up against him and he fed them both birthday cake on his first birthday. Ha! Good luck!
This is what I have heard too and knowing my little beastie's personalities I can see them just being sort of freaked out and keeping their distance from the LO. They are both elders (12yrs old and 19yrs old this year) and smarter than they are curious. Only the older one gets in the bouncy chair. I'm sure that will change when there is a baby in it. She's liable to stay across the room as far away from baby as possible, at least for a while.
Tinfoil only works for some cats. Just as a heads up. My one cat LOVES tin foil, especially the lights that get reflected off of it, and doesn't mind stepping on it either.
We have been keeping the cats out of the baby room, so there aren't any concerns there for us, but we are going to put the PNP in our living room. We'll probably just sit there with a squirt bottle and wait. I hate doing that to them, because they are all generally good cats, but they have to learn somehow and it is only water. We are also banking on the fact that a lot of people say after LO is born, the cats leave everything alone. So fingers crossed on that.
My oldest hasn't been doing so well with all the changes that just the pregnancy has brought about and after LOTS of trips to the vet, we now have him on a low dose of anti-anxiety meds. So there are a lot of options out there.