TTC after 35

no IUI this cycle

My follies didn't grow since Monday. So he cancelled. Starting bc tomorrow, lap surgery scheduled for 3/15, then injectibles after that....trying really hard not to cry here in Re office. I had high hopes for this IUI.

Of course all of this is dependent on my insurance saying my Dr. Knows best.....

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My Ovulation Chart



Me: 41 DH: 46. We are TTC our 1st, started July '11,
3 cycles clomid with Ob,
1 cycle Tamoxifen with Ob,
Diagnosed PCOS 11/5/12
clomid, trigger & timed bd 12/12 BFN
1st clomid IUI 1/4/13 BFN.
2nd clomid IUI 2/13 cancelled didn't respond to clomid.
3/15/13 scheduled laparoscopy & on bcp.

May 10 IUI from injectibles - BFN 

May 22 done with interventions it will either happen or it won't. 

February 2014 No longer actively trying, but not preventing. 

SURPISE BFP 4/2/2015!!!!!!!!!!

Miscarriage 4/23/15

 

Re: no IUI this cycle

  • Oh no, I'm so sorry.  Don't cry...

    What does he think is going on? Yikes, you have to wait 5 weeks for the lap, how come so far away?

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  • So sorry, Heather.  I can understand the frustration that you must be feeling.

    That sucks that the Lap is a bit away, but I just hope that all comes back good and you can proceed to get a BFP out of this!  Gift

    Keep your chin up and know that you are a strong woman!

    Best of Luck.....

    Lilypie Trying to Conceive 15 to 80 day cycle tickers
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  • Qzee, its 5 weeks out because of my schedule, from what I have read and my sisters experience, you can be down and for a week, I am a massage therapist, I do lots of forward bending and moving. I also work every other weekend at a spa so I sceduled the surgery for a weekend I don't work, so hopefully the following weekend I can go back. I was really hoping this Iui would my bfp so I wouldn't have to get surgery, I am afraid.

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    My Ovulation Chart



    Me: 41 DH: 46. We are TTC our 1st, started July '11,
    3 cycles clomid with Ob,
    1 cycle Tamoxifen with Ob,
    Diagnosed PCOS 11/5/12
    clomid, trigger & timed bd 12/12 BFN
    1st clomid IUI 1/4/13 BFN.
    2nd clomid IUI 2/13 cancelled didn't respond to clomid.
    3/15/13 scheduled laparoscopy & on bcp.

    May 10 IUI from injectibles - BFN 

    May 22 done with interventions it will either happen or it won't. 

    February 2014 No longer actively trying, but not preventing. 

    SURPISE BFP 4/2/2015!!!!!!!!!!

    Miscarriage 4/23/15

     

  • I'm sorry Heather.

    ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
    Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive.  Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)

    DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN  DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!


     

     

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  • I am sure everything is going to turn out fine. Try not to worry...

    Now I know who to go see for a massage lol... 

    By the way, did dr d suggest you freeze some of your dh sperm? My dh has to make another deposit tomorrow & they suggested freezing them. Downfall was it costs $200 & it does not sound like this is covered. He wanted it as a back up plan I guess if we have to move onto IUI he will have a back up if DH can't deliver. 

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  • I am really sorry :(
    ***siggy/ticker warning***

    Me:36 DH:38 TTC#1 since 4/2012
    Me DX: Hashimotos,Hypothyroid, DOR, MTHFR,  DH: normal

     IUI #1-#4 BFNs and a few cancelled cycles in the mix.
    - poor responder
    ***Suprise BFP on 6/13/13. Natural MC @6wks 3days
    IVF#1 and 2- Cancelled due to no response on max stimms
    FET 5/20- BFP
    1st Beta- 641
    2nd beta- 2166
    Sono- TWINS!!!!
    Two Boys! Born January 2015 @36 weeks.  Healthy and no NICU!  So blessed!



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  • Oh Heather - I am so sorry.  That sucks big time.  I know you already explained about work but is there any way you could switch?  It seems like such a timing set back!
    Me: 37 DH: 37 TTC since Jan 2012. RE consult and initial testing done in Aug 2012: SA fine, AMH 1.1 & HSG clear - on way to IUI but got BFP on 9/10/2012. m/c 10/3/2012 at 6w5d. BFP next cycle which was a c/p. IUI #1: Clomid 100mg 12/6= BFN. IUI#2 (unmedicated) Jan 2013 = BFN. Hysteroscopy 1/25/13. IUI#3 Clomid 100mg 2/23 = BFN IUI# 4: BFN. IVF #1 April 2013, BFP!  EDD 1/12/14 with Boy!
  • I'm so sorry Heather, it is frustrating and so disappointing.  ((HUGS))

    me:40; DH:41; 4/30/12 1st visit with RE; 6/30/12 IUI #1 BFN; 7/19/12 IUI cancelled (overmedicated); 8/2/12 IUI cancelled (cyst); 9/1/12 IUI #2 BFP! EDD 5/28/13; 10/9/12 1st U/S at 7w3d--missed m/c (trisomy 16) D&C 10/19/12; karyotyping results normal!; 1/31/13 IUI #3 BFP! EDD 10/25/13 Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers Lilypie Maternity tickers
  • Qzees - no dr hasn't mentioned freezing, but after 1st awful SA the next 4 were "ok" not great but ok for a 45 yr old man. SO he never mentioned freezing.

    lennox, I am covering for someone in February so I can't now say I am unavailable and then because of things in my life I couldn't do it any early or he wasn't available.....so it is what it is, as much as I would like it to me over, I am not going to rush it. Not sure how much this all will cost us, I think we pay 20% of the bill.

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    My Ovulation Chart



    Me: 41 DH: 46. We are TTC our 1st, started July '11,
    3 cycles clomid with Ob,
    1 cycle Tamoxifen with Ob,
    Diagnosed PCOS 11/5/12
    clomid, trigger & timed bd 12/12 BFN
    1st clomid IUI 1/4/13 BFN.
    2nd clomid IUI 2/13 cancelled didn't respond to clomid.
    3/15/13 scheduled laparoscopy & on bcp.

    May 10 IUI from injectibles - BFN 

    May 22 done with interventions it will either happen or it won't. 

    February 2014 No longer actively trying, but not preventing. 

    SURPISE BFP 4/2/2015!!!!!!!!!!

    Miscarriage 4/23/15

     

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