Pregnant after IF

FB announcement wording suggestions

I know this has been asked before, but we all know the search function sucks, etc., so sorry if this is repetitive.  Anyway, I will hopefully be doing a FB announcement around 13 weeks if my NT scan looks good next week (or later if we decide further testing is needed).  

I plan on "coming out" on the IF piece as well (trying 2 1/2 years, IVF, etc.).  Can some of you who have announced on FB or who have a plan give me the wording you used so I have some examples?  TIA!!

TTC #1 7/10, Me (31)- Dx DOR (AMH 0.6); DH (30)- normal
BFP on Cycle #8. Natural M/C at ~8 weeks
IUI #1 and #2 (8/12, 9/12)- 50 mg Clomid + Ovidrel = BFNs
IVF #1 (EPP) 13R/10M/9F, 5DT 1-4AA blast, beta #1-148, beta #2-322, 5 frosties! 
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Re: FB announcement wording suggestions

  • We waited until after we found out gender because of my previous loss but here is what I wrote:

    It's a boy! After several years and many tears we are thrilled to be expecting a baby in spring 2013. We could not have made this journey without prayer, family, friends, and Dr Wit at Huston Frtility Intitute. We know we are truly blessed. Prayers to all those who are still waiting and hoping.

    ETA: Didn't mean to put my clinics full info on here due to the sometimes working search function.

    After more than 2 years of fertility treatments, FET did the trick!
    IVF March 2012 - BFP! - Severe OHSS = 8 days in the hospital in kidney failure
    No heartbeat at 10w6d
    FET August 27,2012 = BFP!
    It's a boy!
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  • I didn't feel comfortable discussing my pregnancy on FB at all after going through IVF the first time (no real reason, just irrational fear I suppose), but I am strongly considering it for this one.

    If I do, I'll put DD in a "Big Sis" t-shirt, and say something about her getting excited for her new job.

    As far as a FTM announcement, it totally depends if you want to be light or serious with it, whether you want to do something creative or straight forward.  Give us some parameters you're comfortable with and I'm sure you will get some great suggestions.

    10/10: Married; 5/11: Dx: Blocked Fallopian Tube; 7/11: D&C/Hysteroscopy to remove polyp
    IVF #1: 9/11: ER: 12R, 11M, 10F, No Frosties; 5dt: 2 blasts, 1 morula; DD born 6/3/12
    IVF #2: 11/12-12/12: ER: 20R, 20M, 16F, 4 Frosties; 5dt: 3 blasts, DS born 8/9/13
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  • imagenawlinsgrl:

    As far as a FTM announcement, it totally depends if you want to be light or serious with it, whether you want to do something creative or straight forward.  Give us some parameters you're comfortable with and I'm sure you will get some great suggestions. 

    I want to keep it light as that is DH and my personality type and we're so happy to finally be where we are, but straight forward as well.  I'm hoping to use it with a good picture from the NT scan, or maybe us holding up the picture.  I'm just trying to figure out how to convey our happiness, the IF, etc. all in a few succinct lines.  My career as an attorney has made be bad at being succinct and simple. :-)  TIA!    

    TTC #1 7/10, Me (31)- Dx DOR (AMH 0.6); DH (30)- normal
    BFP on Cycle #8. Natural M/C at ~8 weeks
    IUI #1 and #2 (8/12, 9/12)- 50 mg Clomid + Ovidrel = BFNs
    IVF #1 (EPP) 13R/10M/9F, 5DT 1-4AA blast, beta #1-148, beta #2-322, 5 frosties! 
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  • I posted an album with u/s pictures and bump pictures.  My album was "Buy a Small Frye, get a Small Frye Free."  (our last name is Frye)
    In the description I wrote this.  "After 3 long years I can finally say the 2 words I have been dreaming to say. "I'm pregnant!". It has been a long trying road. Thanks to the love and support of great friends and family, a wonderful medical team, too many needles and injections to count and 3 rounds of IVF, Brett and I are pleased to announce we are expecting TWINS! Due April 25th but we just hope they stay put until March 28th!" 


  • How about something like...

     "We are excited to announce that we are expecting our first child around Labor Day! This pregnancy was hard won - a special thanks goes out to modern medicine for helping to make this happen.:)"

    This acknowledges the IF struggle in a 'light' way so the IF aspect isn't left out, but it's not the highlight either. People can understand it wasn't easy but not get bogged down in that and instead focus on your baby!

    Obviously there are a million plays on the wording, but this was just a gist of an idea. :)

    p.s. I'm 3 days behind you. We are a same sex couple and joked about doing one on FB that says "I'm pregnant! It was totaly unplanned and we're not sure how it happened..." :) 

    Lil'mamaz was born on Aug 21, 2014! She's PERFECT!

    It's been a long road to here...
    Me (43) and J (45) - same sex couple. And we don't feel 40+!
    June'12 - First RE Visit
    Sept. '12 - Tubes removed
    Dec. '12 - Donor Egg/Donor Sperm IVF Cycle - 4 good embies!
    Dec. '12 - Fresh transfer, BFP! EDD 8/29/13
    Mar. '13 - Missed m/c at 16w1d, baby boy stopped growing at 15w4d
    Loss due to umbilical cord clot...baby was perfect. :(
    Jul '13 - FET#1 - c/p
    Sept. '13 - FET#2 - BFN
    Dec.' 2, 2013 - FET#3 with our last chance embie - BFP!!!
    Dec' 26, 2013 - hb!!
    EDD 8/20/14 with a baby girl!
    Little S was born on 8/21/14 - 8lb, 14 oz and 20 inches long.
    We live in Seattle and used SRM for our donor egg IVF cycle


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  • image2MamazInSeattle:

    p.s. I'm 3 days behind you. We are a same sex couple and joked about doing one on FB that says "I'm pregnant! It was totaly unplanned and we're not sure how it happened..." :) 

    Great suggestions! And this would be hilarious!  

    TTC #1 7/10, Me (31)- Dx DOR (AMH 0.6); DH (30)- normal
    BFP on Cycle #8. Natural M/C at ~8 weeks
    IUI #1 and #2 (8/12, 9/12)- 50 mg Clomid + Ovidrel = BFNs
    IVF #1 (EPP) 13R/10M/9F, 5DT 1-4AA blast, beta #1-148, beta #2-322, 5 frosties! 
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  • image2MamazInSeattle:

    How about something like...

     "We are excited to announce that we are expecting our first child around Labor Day! This pregnancy was hard won - a special thanks goes out to modern medicine for helping to make this happen.:)"

    This acknowledges the IF struggle in a 'light' way so the IF aspect isn't left out, but it's not the highlight either. People can understand it wasn't easy but not get bogged down in that and instead focus on your baby!

    Obviously there are a million plays on the wording, but this was just a gist of an idea. :)

    p.s. I'm 3 days behind you. We are a same sex couple and joked about doing one on FB that says "I'm pregnant! It was totaly unplanned and we're not sure how it happened..." :) 

     

    I love both of those!  LOL at yours, too funny!

    10/10: Married; 5/11: Dx: Blocked Fallopian Tube; 7/11: D&C/Hysteroscopy to remove polyp
    IVF #1: 9/11: ER: 12R, 11M, 10F, No Frosties; 5dt: 2 blasts, 1 morula; DD born 6/3/12
    IVF #2: 11/12-12/12: ER: 20R, 20M, 16F, 4 Frosties; 5dt: 3 blasts, DS born 8/9/13
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  • I also waited until we knew the gender and didn't annouce until 20+weeks, but this is what I said:

    It is true what they say, the best things in life are worth the wait! DH and I are thrilled to annouce that Baby Girl H is expected to make her arrival in June!! Our two and a half year journey to get to this point has been a difficult one and we are forever thankful to those who have supported us through it all. Our thoughts and prayers remain with all of those who are still waiting.

    TTC #1 since 6/2010
    8 IUIs - 3 Cancelled cycles - 1 Ectopic Pregnancy with Left tube removal = A broken heart
    IVF #1 : Fall 2012
    15R - 13M - 13F w/ICSI - Transferred 2 day 5 blasts = BFP!!!
    8 Frosties!
    Beta #1: 135, Beta #2: 312, Beta #3: 996
    10/21: Saw one beautiful flickering heartbeat! EDD: 6/12/13
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  • imagekyna81:
    I posted an album with u/s pictures and bump pictures.nbsp; My album was "Buy a Small Frye, get a Small Frye Free."nbsp; our last name is FryeIn the description I wrote this.nbsp; "After 3 long years I can finally say
    the 2 words I have been dreaming to say. "I'm pregnant!". It has been a
    long trying road. Thanks to the love and support of great friends and
    family, a wonderful medical team, too many needles and injections to
    count and 3 rounds of IVF, Brett and I are pleased to announce we are
    expecting TWINS! Due April 25th but we just hope they stay put until
    March 28th!"nbsp;


    Hi!! Just wanted to tell you that this is the most adorable thing I've ever read!!
  • We had our a/s at 20 weeks so while I didn't share the gender, I felt reasonably sure that the baby was healthy. I still felt weird about it because I know that yucky feeling when "yet another" pg announcement went up. This is what I posted:

    After three years of wishing and hoping, we can happily share the news that we are expecting a baby in March! Today marks the halfway point, and we had a healthy baby scan this morning. Keeping our fingers crossed that everything continues to go well. :) To those of you out there doing your own silent wishing and hoping, I hope you get your own good news soon too. 

    Married 6/08, TTC 7/09
    MC w/ D&C 3/11 ~ 9.5 weeks
    CP/MC 1/12 ~ 5 weeks
    2 IUI's w/ BFN
    IVF 6/12 ~ 8R, 0F ~ Rescue ISCI gave us 3dt of 2 (6 cell, 9+ cell)
    DS born ~ 3/3/13
    IVF 6/14 ~ Operation Sibling ~ 10R, 5F ~ 5dt of 1 Blast
    Beta 1: 1600+, Beta 2: 4588
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  • We kept it kind and simple and just said, "DH and I are excited to announce that after over 2 years our miracle baby is on the way. Thank you to our family and friends who supported, loved, and prayed for us during this journey. We can't wait to meet baby (last name) in May. We feel so BLESSED!"
    Me- 26 DH-32
    TTC since August 2010
    Unexplained Infertility
    5 rounds of clomid and 4 rounds of tamoxifen = BFN
    IUI #1 - Jan 2012 with Tamoxifen - BFN IUI #2 - Feb 2012 Cancelled :(
    IVF #1- May 2012: BFP on 05/29/12!! 06/01 Beta #1= 122 06/04 Beta #2 74 :( - C/P
    06/07/12 = BFN Moving onto IVF #2 August 2012
    22 retrieved, 13 fertilized, none to freeze
    Transferred two embies on 08/19. Beta 1 is 08/31 Beta #1-122 Beta #2- 541
    1st U/S 09/12- 1 sac!
    Praying this is my take home baby!
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