Late Term and Child Loss

love for my late loss ladies! ticker warning... pregnancy mentioned

Why can't all the boards on tb be like this one? PgAL is fine, but this is the only board I've find that is unconditionally nonjudgemental and supportive. Since our bfp I've tried not to post here as much because I know how painful other women's pregnancies can be. But I lurk here often and think of you all the time! You ladies are the best!
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Re: love for my late loss ladies! ticker warning... pregnancy mentioned

  • Agree 100%!! I don't really like posting on other boards, but I do every once in a while of TTCAL.

    Some of the ladies on the other boards are just not for me. 

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  • I also agree! We all get each other, even though we may have different stories, we all have the same broken hearts.
    I love how there is zero drama here and everyone is so supportive. I wish all the boards could be as positive and supportive and as understanding as this one.
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers 

    BFP #1 Jan. 2011 - mmc Mar. 2011 
    BFP #2 Aug. 2011 - My sleeping angel Stella, born April 21, 2012 
    BFP #3 Nov. 2012 - mmc Dec. 2012
    BFP #4 April 2013 - mc May 2013
    BFP #5 Sept. 2013 - EDD 5.24.14
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  • I also agree!!! I love how accepting and supportive everyone is even when someone is PgAL or PAL with a rainbow baby. Before this board was available, it was just the miscarriage and pregnancy loss board. As soon as anyone got Pg with a rainbow they were no longer accepted on that board. No one could handle seeing a pregnancy ticker. It sucks because just because you are pg again or even after you have your rainbow, it doesn't mean that you aren't still grieving and need a place to find support. I truly hate that I belong to this board but at the same time I love that I am accepted here.

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  • I strongly believe there is an immediate bond with loss moms, its not a club you want to be in...but it is an amazing bond, an understanding many people don't find.
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    Married the love of my life 7/11/09 - Our first baby, Peyton Mark, was born sleeping 10/25/11 at 33 weeks - Our second baby, BFP 2/4/12, welcome to the world Raylan! Holy Moly, BPF 2/4/14, please be safe and sound little one!

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  • You are so right, this is the only board I feel comfortable posting on. Everyone here is supportive and understanding. I understand that many of the women on TTCAL have been through tough times but they can be so bitter and mean to clueless women. I feel like if anyone is going to be bitter it should be us, but we aren't. I feel very lucky to have found you ladies. 

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial ticker
    Due with baby boy # 2 in May 2016
    DD #1 born January 2014

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    I strongly believe there is an immediate bond with loss moms, its not a club you want to be in...but it is an amazing bond, an understanding many people don't find.

    This!

    TTC since August 2011
    DX PCOS and annovulatory
    1/12 Clomid (3 rounds total and no response)
    DH SA = normal
    6/12 Femara (2 rounds)no response
    8/12 1st round Gonal F and 2 follies = BFN
    9/12 2nd round injects and 3 follies = BFP!
    10/15 11dpo beta#1 = 162 10/17 beta #2 = 471 1st U/S: Quads!!!
    1/13 Baby A ruptured membranes, our angels Jaxon, Jayse, Emersyn, and Ellee were born @ 17 weeks
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    5/13 Gonal F with 1 follie - BFP! EDD - 2/11/14

     

  • I agree. I never really posted much to my birth month board. I have no tolerance for ignorance so I just keep my distance from drama.
    This board has been a godsend the last couple of days.
  • I couldn't agree more!  I love you ladies and I really do feel like this board is my "home base".  It's safe here and full of nothing but love and support.  Group ((hug))!
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    BFP#1 - 11/27/09 EDD 8/5/10, DS1 arrived 7/24/10 via emergency c-section.

    BFP#2 - 6/18/12 EDD 2/23/13, sweet baby girl born sleeping on 10/4/12 at 19 weeks, 3 days.

    BFP #3 - 1/18/13 EDD 10/1/13, natural mc on 2/2/13 at 5 weeks, 4 days.

    BFP #4 - 8/29/13 EDD 5/12/14, our sweet rainbow, DS2 born 4/29/14 via c-section

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    I also agree! We all get each other, even though we may have different stories, we all have the same broken hearts.
    I love how there is zero drama here and everyone is so supportive. I wish all the boards could be as positive and supportive and as understanding as this one.


    I agree with this completely. I hate that we have to be here but I'm so glad we have each other to lean on. Hugs all around

    Jillian Rose- born 8/26/12 at 24 weeks. "It broke my heart to lose you but you didn't go alone, for a part of me went with you, the day God took you home"
    I love you always, my beautiful girl.

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    BFP 3/18/13- Please be our Rainbow, we love you so much already.

    6/4/13-Found out we're having a BOY!!

    10/30/13-He's here!! Happy Birthday, Ryan! We love you so much! xo

    Lilypie - (Bfmg)

     

  • Agree! This has been a fantastic board with ladies who not only leave the drama behind, but also have each other's backs. While none of us would want to be here, I am thankful that we are able to not have to go through this alone.
    Lilypie - (qptF)


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    "Elsie Irene was born sleeping at 35w 6d on December 8, 2012. Mommy and Daddy miss you sweet girl."


  • I agree too! This is an amazing board filled with the most amazing people! You ladies get it in ways that no one else in my life seems to. I honestly am not sure how I would get through some days without this board. While this is the very last place I ever thought I would find myself, I am so grateful to have found a place where I can connect with supportive and understanding people.
  • Agree with all of this! I have ventured out to other boards, but always feel the most comfortable here. I do not know how I could have gotten through these last 10+ months without the support of you all!

     

    BFP #1 12.24.07 - DD born @ 39w1d on 08.26.08
    BFP #2 08.04.11 - DD born still @ 37w3d on 03.25.12

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    TTC #3 since May 2012

    BFP #3 12.29.12 - CP @ 4w2d on 01.02.13
    BFP #4 10.17.13 - CP @ 4w2d on 10.23.13

    BFP #5 04.06.14 - MMC 05.07.14

    No longer trying to conceive.

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  • I feel the exact same way. It is tough going through what we have all been through and then to be PGAL with your rainbow is a tough time and some people just don't get it I found great comfort in my loss mamas who had similar losses. It helped me no think I was losing my mind.

    Hugs!!

    If you need anything or just want to talk about being PGAL I am here I am glad to help I am sure I felt all the emotions you are or will be feeling.

    Heather 

    DS- Brenden born 11/13/93 Missed miscarriage on March 6, 2007 @ 9 weeks D&C on March 8th 2007. Riley Annalise born 2/25/08 ( 3 weeks early weighing 8 lbs 12.8 oz.) Chemical pregnancy 3/2010. Sydney Adriana born sleeping on 9/30/11 weighing 10lbs 3 oz at 38wks 4 days. Trinity Alivia born via c section at 36 wks 4 days weighing 9 lbs. 5.7 oz. She is our amazing rainbow baby!!! Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers Lilypie First Birthday tickers PGAL buddy drvst8
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