At my doctors appointment yeaterday we were going over what it will be like when I am in labor.
She said because I am a VBAC I need to go to the hospital right away ( I think I will stay home a while though) She said I have to be hooked up to monitors right away and they will put the monitor in the babies scalp (sorry I dont know what thats called) I have to have an IV and the require me to have a epidural and I have to have it early. She also said they wil check me every 2 hours and I have to progress every time they check me.
I feel like I am being set up for failure being stuck to a bed.
My question is should I look around to see if maby a midwife would give me more freedom? or is this kind of the normal.
Re: Set up for failure?
That sounds awful. I don't think that's universally the norm - ACOG issued "less restrictive" guidelines for VBAC patients in 2010 but I can't read the full paper without being a member. Basically, I doubt your OB's professional association recommends all those restrictions.
A VBAC-friendly OB, or a midwife should generally be more favorable to labor taking its natural time. I dilated more slowly when everyone was pressuring me and jumped 2 cm when everyone backed off - I doubt I could progress properly under the conditions you Dr is advising.
If he's your only option in town, I'd labor at home with a doula who can confirm I'm at least 7cm before transferring.
Edit: Just found this PDF with a somewhat vague summary from ACOG but it discourages excessive restrictions on VBAC patients: "The guidelines emphasize that restrictive VBAC policies should not be used to force a woman to undergo a repeat cesarean delivery against her will if, for example, a woman in labor presents for care and declines a repeat cesarean delivery at a center that does not support TOLAC. On the other hand, if, during prenatal care, a physician is uncomfortable with a patient?s desire to undergo VBAC, it is appropriate to refer her to another physician or center. "
Source: https://www.acog.org/~/media/ACOG Today/acogToday0810.pdf?dmc=1&ts=20130201T1354263875
I would look around if that's an option or stay at home as long as possible.
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Definitely find another practice. None of those things are real requirements for a safe VBAC. Continuous monitoring is standard with VBAC, as is a saline lock, but other than that, you don't really need anything special. FWIW, my MW told me not to show up until I was in "active" labor.
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It definitely sounds to me like your doctor is putting a lot of restrictions on your VBAC, especially given how far along you are. I ended up needing a pretty high intervention VBAC, but that was circumstantial, not my OBs standard practice. In my case I had a history of borderline pre-eclampsia with my first and my blood pressures suddenly spiked, so I was induced, which changes the game a lot.
I was induced, so I was obviously unable to labor at home. But had I not needed an induction my OB was not insisting I be at the hospital (although I would have chosen to be very quickly; my own comfort level and personal preference).
Constant monitoring was required, but that was partially because I was being induced as a VBAC. It was not otherwise her policy to require that. I never once heard about having to have the monitor on the baby's scalp due to a VBAC and it was never brought up. That sounds like overkill.
I tested positive for group B strep, so I was required to have the IV because I needed IV antibiotics while laboring.
My hospital's policy was that all VBAC mothers were required to have the epidural port put in. But we were not required to have meds through it. That was absolutely our own choice. My OB, who I trusted immensely (not many OBs would induce a hypertensive VBAC) convinced me to get the epidural since the port was going in anyway. Honestly, I'm so glad she did. I ended up pushing for 3 hours and needing forceps and had I spent my energy fighting the contractions all day I would without a doubt have been too tired to push effectively by the end (I barely made it as it was). And I believe they would not have used forceps if I did not have the epi. They had mostly turned the epi off while I was pushing so I could feel what I was doing but they turned it back up a few minutes before using the forceps for my comfort.
I really don't like that you must be checked every 2 hours and must have progressed. I had labor stall for a bit and then everything went quickly from there. That really sounds like they're setting you up to fail.
So, while some of the interventions they mention actually made it possible for me to VBAC, it's very situational and I don't like that they're putting a blanket statement that all VBAC moms must have them. It sounds like they don't truly support VBACs and really won't let you do one unless it goes so fast they don't have time to prep an OR.