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Jazzym12 · February 2013

I know it isn't Tuesday but I want to strangle DH. I came down with the stomach flu last night. I have a fever and I'm completely out of it. DH went to work early today in hopes I wouldn't be awake when he left. I need help today!! I asked him to take a half day and he flat out said no and to deal. Now he has turned off his phone and is ignoring his emails. I feel like *** and my toddler does not. I can't keep up with her today and I just need help and he is ignoring us. And he has lots and lots of personal time, vacation time, family care time! I'm pretty sure he just doesn't want to watch E and wants not to get sick.

That is all..

kagl08 · February 2013

How sh!tty!! That's awful!! I'd be so pissed at my DH.

I say throw on a movie for LO and give her lots of snacks and see if you can't just get her to be entertained so you can relax, even for a minute.

cantalopes24 · February 2013

I would puke all over his side of the bed. That was a serious d!ck move and now he's ignoring you like a 5 year old.

amyc216 · February 2013

Ohh...I am so sorry! That sucks! I hope you feel better soon!

mrsgabus · February 2013

What an asshat.

Throw on seseme street. Grab a bottle of milk and some snacks and some toys. Try to get some rest

Nita2603 · February 2013

Yeah, that is a complete azzhole move. Who does that?! I would check into a hotel as soon as he gets home. Alone. And I second Lopes. Puke over is stuff.

Seriously, that would follow him for a while.

thetheisens · February 2013

Tonight when he's all peaceful and asleep, punch right in the balls as hard as you can.

Shannon526 · February 2013

cantalopes24:
I would puke all over his side of the bed. That was a serious d!ck move and now he's ignoring you like a 5 year old.

I agree. Just tell him you were too weak to get to the bathroom in time.. and you had your DD on the other side of the bed.. not your fault :-)

In all seriousness.. I hope you feel better soon and that YH realizes he's being a douche.

Scramblersmom · February 2013

Holy sh*t! If DH did that to me I would rip his balls off! You have every right to be angry. You may need to have a "talk" with him tonight.

Lots of hugs to you and I hope you are feeling better soon!

joolz17 · February 2013

Oh my god, Jazzy, I would be so infuriated! That is super not cool, Mr. Jazzy. Ugh. I wish there was a solution. Do you have a sitter you could call to come in for a few hours while you sleep?

Fianschneid · February 2013

D!ck move and totally unacceptable. When he gets home, give him a piece of your mind and go straight to bed so that he can do LO's night time routine on his own.

blu-eyedwife · February 2013

Jazzy do you have enough strength to call the locksmith? Because I totally would and then when you husband can't get in tonight I wouldn't answer my phone.

And when he breaks in, you can tell him that you assumed he was dead or had moved on with his life since he wasn't responding to phone calls, emails, or texts.

morsey2011 · February 2013

thetheisens:
Tonight when he's all peaceful and asleep, punch right in the balls as hard as you can.

yep! This! What a douche.

CMonkey515 · February 2013

So I guess he didn't get the memo that when you become a husband and parent you don't get to pick and choose when you feel like being there for your family. Refusing to help you is crappy. Cutting off all communication after refusing to help you is seriously a diick move. I agree that a firm nut punch is in order. At minimum.

ETA: don't feel bad about doing whatever necessary to get through today. I hope you feel better soon, and LO doesn't catch it next.

missyishere · February 2013

thetheisens:
Tonight when he's all peaceful  and asleep, punch right in the balls as hard as you can.

El oh el!

Seriously, though. He's being a total tool bag. Sorry, your DH sucks donkey balls right now. Hope you feel better soon!

katecham · February 2013

Sounds like my DH. We fight constantly about him not helping out when DS or I am sick. He has hundreds of leave hours but refuses to stay home. Can you call a friend to help?

When DH does that I usually pack up DS and leave right before he gets home and turn ff my phone. He freaks out about not knowing where we are. I usually go get food and let DS play for a few hours before going home. Gives him a taste of his own medicine for being a jackass.

anasazi17 · February 2013

Oh my gawd. Do you want me to go to his office and kick him in his nuts? I'll do it cause that's just inappropriate on every level possible.

Can you have a Yo Gabba Gabba marathon?

Jazzym12 · February 2013

Thanks for your support ladies! E is currently running around the house eating Burger King chicken nuggets and watching tv..

Oh and he finally responded and yeah, it made him more of a douche.

Jazzym12 · February 2013

anasazi17:
Oh my gawd. nbsp;Do you want me to go to his office and kick him in his nuts? nbsp;I'll do it cause that's just inappropriate on every level possible.nbsp;Can you have a Yo Gabba Gabba marathon? nbsp;

If you want to drive to gas city for me!! And right now we are watching days of our lives because I'm classy like that. But the yo gabba gabba DVDs are cued up and ready to go.

Athena3210 · February 2013

Some men can be so selfish. I suggest you enroll her in daycare 1 or 2 days a week just to give yourself a break and if he doesn't like that, oh well!

colliebabe · February 2013

Athena3210:
Some men can be so selfish. I suggest you enroll her in daycare 1 or 2 days a week just to give yourself a break and if he doesn't like that, oh well!

Jazzy I'm sorry you have to deal with that. I hope you feel better soon! I agree with Tysons on the middle-of-the-night punch in the junk.

Edit: Going to start a new thread...

UFCasey · February 2013

Um, someone's effing belongings would all be in the effing garage where he can sleep in his effing car if he ever effing did that. I am SO.MAD. for you!!!

pennysuedog · February 2013

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LCass · February 2013

blu-eyedwife:
Jazzy do you have enough strength to call the locksmith? Because I totally would and then when you husband can't get in tonight I wouldn't answer my phone.

And when he breaks in, you can tell him that you assumed he was dead or had moved on with his life since he wasn't responding to phone calls, emails, or texts.

This is along the lines I was thinking. Do you have a deadbolt? I'd totally lock DH out. Or go check into a hotel for the weekend when he gets home. What a prick! I cannot believe he is behaving so horribly! And you better believe that the next friggin' "man cold" he gets, he gets no extra care and can just "suck it up!"

KrisM86 · February 2013

Jazzy, I'm so sorry! YH is being a total jerk! It's unacceptable to refuse to help your wife out when she is sick. Part of marriage is stepping up even when you don't feel like it. And to turn off his phone?!? What if you were to get worse or dangerously dehydrated and truly unable to take care of your DD? I'm furious for you right now. If MH ever pulled something like that, he'd be sleeping on the couch and taking over all baby and household duties for the weekend. We'd also be having a discussion about why he thought it was okay to behave that way.

I hope you are able to get some rest and feel better very soon! I also kind of hope YH does get sick and you are able to find a reason to leave DD with him all day.