So my husband and I have been arguing for the past couple of days because he wants to go out of town with a buddy to DC over Memorial Day Weekend which is three weeks after our baby's due date. He is taking 6 weeks paternity leave and has plans of working on things during the day that he needs to take care of. I am upset he wants to leave for the weekend that soon because to me that time is meant for caring for the baby, learning about her, spending time as a family and bonding. Plus, we have no idea if the birth will be fairly easy or have it's complications. He thinks I am trying to be controlling. I don't know what to do. Am I really being that unrealistic with this?