Pregnant after a Loss
HoolahZinger
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EDD 1/31/13, MC May 17. EDD 3/31/13, MC July 26. I miss you so much already my angel loves
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Today was my EDD for my first angel
HoolahZinger
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And I am not handling it well at all. I was telling DH a couple days ago about the EDD coming on Thursday and how hard I was taking it already. He didn't remember. I know it was an early loss but I thought he'd at least know. I even gave him an ornament at Christmas with our two angels EDD on it, saying they would never be forgotten. I guess dates just aren't his thing and I know he misses them but it just hurts nonetheless. I feel so alone and heartbroken. Prayers would really be appreciated as I continue to trek through the dragging day.
EDD 1/31/13, MC May 17. EDD 3/31/13, MC July 26. I miss you so much already my angel loves
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Re: Today was my EDD for my first angel
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BFP#1 3/8/12; diagnosed w/ Anencephaly at 12w6d; D&C 5/9/12
BFP#2 7/18/12; A/S 10/26/12 It's a Girl! EDD 3/29/13
Phoebe Jordan Born 3/20/13
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so sorry you're having to deal with all this on one day
when you go home, be nice to yourself and do something fun
BFP 07/27/2012 - Beta 1 - 169 @ 11 DPO, Beta 2 - 419 @ 13 DPO, DD Born on 04/04/2013.
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BFP #1 4/10/12 D&C 6/5/12@ 12.5wks EDD 12/17/12
BFP #2 9/10/12 CP 9/19/12@ 5.5wks EDD 5/21/13
BFP# 3 12/3/12...Lukas James born 8/15/13
BFP# 4 8/4/14 EDD 4/13/15
((hugs))
My DH didn't remember ours either. I think some things just stick with us more than others, you know? Take care of yourself today.
BFP #2 8/22/12 | EDD 5/5/13 | DS1 born 5/9/13
BFP #3 4/25/15 | EDD 1/7/16 | MMC 7/2/15 @ 13w1d | D&E 7/8/15
BFP #4 12/9/15 | EDD 8/22/16 | DS2 born 5/18/16 at 26w2d
Just keep swimming.
M/C 7/8/12
Perfect baby boy born 7/8/13
BFP 8/20/14 EDD 4/27/15 It's a GIRL!!
BFP #3: 01/28/12, EDD: 09/23/12, MMC (BO), D&C 2/16/12 at 6.5 wks
BFP #4: 05/23/12, EDD: 01/31/12, Early MC at 5 wks
RPL Workup: + LPD (7DPO Prog = 7.8, Endometrial Bx = out of phase)
Elevated Alpha 2-glycoprotein IgA and antiphosphatidylserine IgM -->
Hematologist said not to worry and no need for treatment!
Dx: LPD
Cycle #1(08/2012): Clomid 50 mg CD3-7, Ovidrel CD13 + Progesterone = It worked!
BFP #5 on 09/10/12 (11 DPO). HCG #1 @ 14DPO = 131.6 HCG #2 @ 16DPO = 509
EDD: 05/23/2013
BFP #1 9/1999. DD Born 6/7/2000
BFP #2 10/2011. EDD 7/11/12. MMC discovered 11/2/11. D&C 11/4/11.
DX PCOS 10/2012.
BFP#3 1/11/13. DS Born 9/17/2013
BFP#4 9/30/17. Grow baby grow!
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D&C: 03/08/12 Waited for AF for 146 long days!
Hysteroscopy/D&C on July 10th to fix blocked cervix (DX: Cervical Stenosis)
BFP #2 12/8/12, EDD 08/21/13 Our rainbow arrived 08/24/13!
***BFP 1-22-13, baby boy dx with Trisomy 13 at 15 weeks.
We let him go to Heaven on 4-27-13 at 17 weeks 1 day***
Huge (((hugs))). Loss EDDs are hard. It seems to most often be remembered by the mother who carried the pregnancy as it is important but different for father. I hope you and your husband are able to talk about this.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
BFP#2 09/11/12 beta1=72 @13dpo beta2=160 @14dpo beta3=over 6000 @24dpo U/S @7w2dd hb=146bpm U/S @8w5d hb=159bpm U/S @12w hb=164bpm
EDD 05/20/13
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((Hugs))
I doubt my DH knows the dates associated with any of our losses (dates of the BFPs, the loss dates or the EDDs), while each is seared into my brain BUT I know that doesn't mean he didn't love those babies and mourn their losses. I think women and men handle a lot of things differently, and have seen here that losses are definitely one of those things. I am sorry you are feeling so alone on such a hard day. More ((hugs)).
Sending you T&Ps and strength to get through this day.
BFP#1 11/12/11 ~ No heartbeat 12/12/11 ~ D&C 12/19/11
BFP#2 3/25/12 ~ Heartbeat 141 4/16/12 ~ No heartbeat 4/25/12 ~ D&C 04/30/12
BFP#3 7/16/12 ~ EDD 3/26/13 ~ It's a BOY ~ DOB 2/26/13
Oh, Hoolah. I'm sorry this is so hard.
Our first EDD was Sunday, and I spent a several hours in bed just bawling. DH had to ask why I was so upset.. I still don't think he knows that that is when she should/would have been due.
It's hard enough as it is, but it's even harder when our partners are sometimes clueless.
I hope tomorrow is better for you, and you're definitely in my thoughts tonight.
EDD 1/31/13, MC May 17. EDD 3/31/13, MC July 26. I miss you so much already my angel loves
BFP #2 12/26/11 ~ EDD 9/6/12 ~ MMC discovered on 1/27/12 @ 8w1d (measured 6w2d)
BFP #3 8/10/12 ~ EDD 4/23/13 ~ MMC discovered on 9/13/12 @ 8w2d (measured 6w6d)