It's Tuesday, right? Cause I got a teste tale!

pennysuedog

Tonight MH is telling me about how he in migrating all these servers at work and he will have to work 6pm-6am for the next 4 Mondays.  Fine.  Then I realize that one of the Mondays is president's day.  I told him to take president's day off back in November because we are going out of town, hotel has been prepaid, non-refundable.  I am completely pissed!  I have not had a whole weekend off since October and he has to F it up! 

He tells me he remembers that I asked for it off but he forgot to check his personal calendar when he scheduled the server changes at work.  I feel like I have to write his boss notes for when he needs time off.  He has done this sh!t repetitively. 

I think we can manage leaving early from our trip so he can make it back into work, but I feel like I'm talking to a brick wall.  I hate that he is always a wild card in my plans.

cantalopes24

Is it a romantic trip? Can you go with a friend instead? I have to call MH while he's at work and make him put his request in while I'm on the phone.

missyishere

We could be married to the same man.  MH does that kind of sh!t all.of.the.time.  I don't know why I ever plan things, because he's either forgotten the details or has changed his mind. 

pennysuedog

cantalopes24:

Is it a romantic trip? Can you go with a friend instead? I have to call MH while he's at work and make him put his request in while I'm on the phone.

Not a romantic trip, we are taking the kids.  If worse comes to worse

I'll take my mom. 

 

Missy-You are my sister from another mister.

lisamonkee11

I've got one too...

DH stayed home "sick" from work today & has been playing THE SAME video game ALL DAY. Like since 8:30 this morning. He stopped to eat dinner with us, paused to say goodnight to Emma & picked it right back up again. He asked me about an hour ago if I wanted him to stop - but honestly, I'd rather just be annoyed with him and go to bed early.

And he wonders why I don't want to have sex with him all the time. Ugh. 

missyishere

pennysuedog:

cantalopes24:

Is it a romantic trip? Can you go with a friend instead? I have to call MH while he's at work and make him put his request in while I'm on the phone.

Not a romantic trip, we are taking the kids.  If worse comes to worse

I'll take my mom. 

Missy-You are my sister from another mister.

You got that right! 

mamaZbo

That really stinks. Dh is incredibly
forgetful, though it sometimes works to my advantage when I can make him believe I told him something I didn't.

pennysuedog

missyleaferg:

pennysuedog:

cantalopes24:

Is it a romantic trip? Can you go with a friend instead? I have to call MH while he's at work and make him put his request in while I'm on the phone.

Not a romantic trip, we are taking the kids.  If worse comes to worse

I'll take my mom. 

Missy-You are my sister from another mister.

You got that right! 

Should it be Mr.? Gawd, I hate grammar.

missyishere

You got the mister correct.  Mr. is just short for mister.  Missus or Missis is short for Mrs.

BeesMomma00

pennysuedog:

Tonight MH is telling me about how he in migrating all these servers at work and he will have to work 6pm-6am for the next 4 Mondays.  Fine.  Then I realize that one of the Mondays is president's day.  I told him to take president's day off back in November because we are going out of town, hotel has been prepaid, non-refundable.  I am completely pissed!  I have not had a whole weekend off since October and he has to F it up! 

He tells me he remembers that I asked for it off but he forgot to check his personal calendar when he scheduled the server changes at work.  I feel like I have to write his boss notes for when he needs time off.  He has done this sh!t repetitively. 

I think we can manage leaving early from our trip so he can make it back into work, but I feel like I'm talking to a brick wall.  I hate that he is always a wild card in my plans.

That blows.  I mean...  we do everything we can to ensure that things are ON THE CALENDAR.  What good is it if they don't check it????

emunbalanced

mamaZbo:

That really stinks. Dh is incredibly
forgetful, though it sometimes works to my advantage when I can make him believe I told him something I didn't.

I do this, too! haha stupid men.

Nita2603

It has happened here too. Even better is the other way around, when he doesn't put his shoots and appointments into the calendar according to which I schedule. Nothing like having to call back people to reschedule because the dumbazz didn't update the calendar.

AngLK987

MH Does the exact same thing! I told him he needed this coming saturday off for my grandma's 80th birthday... he forgot of course, but was able to swap his shift so instead of going down friday afternoon he's working 4pm-8am friday night/saturday morning... then we're taking off to head down to the party (a 2.5 hour ride) so that's about how much sleep he's going to have all day b/c we're going to be so busy!!! If he'd just remembered to take it off like I asked, I wouldn't have to listen to him b!tch all day about how tired he is. 

stardust317

I have no complaints about DH today and I miss sex... 3 more weeks until my PP check...

DH did tell me this week that there would be no more sex until I was on birth control of some sort....

kagl08

emunbalanced:

mamaZbo:

That really stinks. Dh is incredibly
forgetful, though it sometimes works to my advantage when I can make him believe I told him something I didn't.

I do this, too! haha stupid men.

I do this also! It amazes me that almost 10 yrs later I can still play him this way. Hehe.

pearblossom

kagl08:

emunbalanced:

mamaZbo:

That really stinks. Dh is incredibly forgetful, though it sometimes works to my advantage when I can make him believe I told him something I didn't.

I do this, too! haha stupid men.

I do this also! It amazes me that almost 10 yrs later I can still play him this way. Hehe.

+1 - I try to use my powers only for good.

LCass

stardust317:

DH did tell me this week that there would be no more sex until I was on birth control of some sort....

Why is it solely your responsibility?  Unless you've already said you were gonna go on the pill or get an IUD or something, shouldn't this have been a discussion of what method you two preferred, including condoms which he would be capable of going out and buying?

Chunstad

lisamonkee11:

I've got one too...

DH stayed home "sick" from work today & has been playing THE SAME video game ALL DAY. Like since 8:30 this morning. He stopped to eat dinner with us, paused to say goodnight to Emma & picked it right back up again. He asked me about an hour ago if I wanted him to stop - but honestly, I'd rather just be annoyed with him and go to bed early.

And he wonders why I don't want to have sex with him all the time. Ugh. 

That sh!t would piss.me.off.  I WISH that I could just zone out all day long with no responsibilities, have someone else cook and clean up for me and deal with the baby.  You have every right to withold sex.  Or just tell him that you 'took care of business' yourself while he was out in the living room playing.

Mrs. Mo

Ugh, I hate it when plans get messed up do to work. We were supposed to go to one of those indoor waterparks last weekend (and stay the night). DH's coworkers decided to tell him at the last minute that a warehouse was being shut down (they knew several months ago) and he had to change all the tracking/coding in the database. Since it had to be done off-hours, he spent the entire weekend working.

Also, DH went grocery shopping this week as to be nice since I'm a bit slow with the boot I have to wear (badly sprained foot). Although the gesture was nice, he got DECAF coffee !!!! Seriously, I NEED my coffee in the morning since I'm getting up at 5:30am to get ready for work. Decaf just will not cut it. He did feel bad when I pointed it out but now I'm dealing with being half asleep at work.

lisamonkee11

HA!