I have the opportunity to take a new job that seems like a great opportunity but I am a little nervous about trying to start a new job when PG. I am very newly PG so I would most likely work 7-8 months before having to go out on mat. leave, but there are days when I just feel like such cr@p already that I am nervous about trying to make a good impression on new clients and co-workers. The good news is, the job is very flexible and a lot of the work can be done remotely (so at home in my PJ's) but my current job is pretty flexible with me. AT the new job I am not eligible for paid vacation or benefits, so no paid leave at all. At my current job, I get vacation but no disability, so I would only get paid during leave for any vacation time I use.
But mostly I am nervous about feeling horrible and trying to make a good impression on new people. Should I take this into consideration, or just leave the PG situation out of the decision? I was sure I wanted to do this but now that it is time to sign the offer letter I am in a panic.
Re: Starting a new job when PG?
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Do they know you're pregnant?
It's not just paid leave you'll have to worry about--you won't have worked there long enough to be eligible for FMLA. Your situation could vary from state to state, but it's something to think about.
It is not entirely a career change, but a better work environment and more along the lines of what I enjoy doing. They will accomodate the time I need to have off. Basically, this is a job where I am a casual employee and get paid only for the time I work, but I can work out my own schedule and they will shift clients around accordingly. It is an ideal working mom situation for me, since my DH travels a couple of days every week.
I am worried more about not feeling my best and trying to make a good impression on new clients, but I am just going to go for it and hope it works out. This is the type of job I have wanted for a long time so I don't want to give up the opportunity.