Blindsided at Monitoring appt :)

rrdiva1

Some days are harder than others, this is one of those days ladies. Just got back from monitoring appt and was blindsided. She explained all my cycles progesterine has played nice, this one crept up to a 2.9 yesterday. anything above 2.5 is not ideal for your lining, and can cause implantaion problems. She verified with U/s today and saw some of my lining exposed. It decreases your pregnancy chance of 30%. She did advice it is nothing I did, and is common for people that respond very well to treatment. The good news is I will have at least 12 mature eggs prob. she is thinking a few more, so more than I ever had, but that came with a price. She said she had 2 cases where 1 couple had not FET ins/freezing so put them in and had twins. Another couple waited til next month and did fet and twins. I am 99% sure I will be freezing them all, and pray to GOD above that they make it to freezing/thawing trigger ton. and sat is ER, and I know this decision is tough, but I have to trust God at this point. I know there is a lot riding on if I decided to freeze all or not freeze all. Dr. reminded me of the findings of Fet and gave me a big hug. I love her. Looks et would be 2/26ish. I make the dinal decision when she calls me later. I refuse to let negative thinking come in, I refuse to let the seed of doubt of ever having a baby come in. I am going to dig my heels in and fight for this. I am tired, and feel like I have run over,but I believe in Rainbows!

solisilou

I'm so sorry that on top of everything you still have to make such difficult decisions. This really never gets easier... I wish you all the best and good luck with whatever your choice is.

Crystal120410

Nothing ever goes as planned with IF. Im so sorry lady that your having to deal with this now. Silver lining, your getting a great number of eggs. I have heard that FET's have just as good if not better success rates than fresh. I wish you the very best with your decision.

asilwhite

Oh diva....I'm sorry you didn't get good news today. ((Hugs)) with whatever you decide, even if that means waiting to do a FET. I truly believe you're going to get your rainbow baby. Your positive thinking and outlook never cease to amaze me. GL and know that we are here for you. 

JewelsW1980

You have the BEST outlook lady!!  God will take care of you and guide you with this decision.

Enchanted616

::huge hugs:: 

JSM0801

This is EXACTLY what just happened to me the other day!!! Basically, we overstimmed a day it caused progesterone to be released too early. My dr. explained that when estrogen goes up a lot, progesterone has to work harder to produce that amount of estrogen. She said when progesterone is released too early, it can cause the lining to start breaking down. I will most likely be doing a freeze as well. I am going in tomorrow to check my lining. I know how you feel and how devastating the news was. It's another bump in the road, that's for sure! But, hopefully just a minor bump, and we will have successful FET's! GL and hang in there!

JSM0801

Also, that's interesting that your doc said over 2.5 isn't ideal. Mine said 1.5 to 2 could cause problems, and mine was 1.89. Hmmm??? I'm curious what others say.

Lacyj67

Try not to stress! Good news is you have eggs and they will!!! Fertilize!!! Just believe and see the positive outcome. You will know the right decision to make when the time comes. Good luck

melkel559

I am also sorry you have to deal with another bump in the road. GL with whatever you decide..keeping FX for you!!

lincoln79

sorry that your plan changed, but you are making the very best decision with the information that you have possible and that is all any of us can do.

on the up side, there are a boat-load of us FET'ers in the Hopeful Hearts. Come join us!

GL with ER! 

firesiren

Way to be positive.  FX for you!!

cupcake201

Ugh I'm sorry diva!! It is so hard to be thrown a curve ball like that. Some days are harder than others, and I envy your ability to stay so positive! Whatever you choose is the right choice for you and DH. Good luck with ER!

BzeetyD

Sorry about the curve ball, but it sounds like you're in competent hands and with people who are helping you to make the best decision for you and for your future LOs.

Best of luck and I hope everything else goes smoothly.

jschwind22

racheyt0227

Ticker warning

 

 

 

I had the same exact thing happen to me. My p4 was over 2 and my re said I had to do a freeze all. I decided I wanted to take the chance anyways and try for a fresh transfer. I was lucky and it worked; I know not everyone is that lucky. I did a lot of research though and decided I wanted to move forward (re wasn't happy but I was paying the bills and felt it was my decision). GL to you!