Parenting after a Loss

Intro...

I have  been lurking for a while, but felt that it was time for me to introduce myself.  My name is Erin.  I have been on TTCAL and PgAL since 1/12.  DH and I ttc for 2 years before we were successful (with some help -- details in siggy).  Unfortunately we lost our first son at 19 weeks, due to reasons that are still unknown.  I had a very rough recovery from that delivery, including a hemorrage and D&C 1 month later.  It took us 4 cycles to concieve again.

 Our rainbow was born on 1/4/13.  I had been in prodromal labor for almost 2 weeks and was in complete denial that I was in labor.  DH was working that night and was nervous that he was not home.  I had my 39 week appointment the following morning at 10 and kept saying that I we would make the appointment and not to worry.  I did not sleep at all that night due to severe back pain (that of was about 7-10 minutes apart --LOL).  I was sent to L&D from my appointment since I was 4 cm.  We walked the halls of L&D for a few hours and were shocked when the OB told us that I was 9 cm.  Thank goodness she still allowed me to get an epi.  Liam was born after and hour of pushing and a wonderful 3rd degree tear.  He was a perfect 7 lbs 5 oz and 20 inches long.

We have spent the last few weeks getting the hang of things.  He is nursing like a champ and gaining weight rapidly.  He is kind enought to let us sleep about 4- 4.5 hours at a time each night.  I am still nervous about having a newborn during the height of flu season, and we are have been hiding in the house most of the time.  I wanted to thank you ladies, because lurking on this board has really given me a lot of insight and encouragement. 

Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickersLilypie - (B9PH)

 

Lilypie - (0YVF)
 TTC since 11/2009; Lap/HSG/Hysteroscopy: 5/2011 (endometriosis - removed; endocervical polyp - removed; high pressure in bilateral tubes - cleared)

BFP #1: 8/4/11; DS1 born sleeping on 11/16/11 at 19w1d

BFP # 2: 5/7/12, EDD 1/10/13, DS2 born 1/4/13

BFP # 3: 11/8/13, EDD 7/17/14, mmc 10wks

BFP # 4: 5/16/14, EDD 1/15/15, praying for our 2nd rainbow baby 

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  • Congrats!!! I hear ya about the whole flu thing. I had been looking forward to mall walks with the kids. Nope.
    DS born 2009
    BFP#2 ~ 8/2/11, EDD 4/11/12, D&C 9/12/11 at 9w5d
    BFP#3 ~ 4/15/12, EDD 12/21/12 ~ DD born 12/22/12
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  • Congrats!  Welcome to the other side!

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    BFP#1 10 wk missed mc      

    BFP#2 DS born at 40+2 on 8/14/12  BFP#3 DD Born at 39+3 on 5/13/14

  • A huge congrats and welcome!!!
    Me: 37 DH: 40 TTC since 9/09
    #1 BFP 1/10/11; missed m/c discovered 7w5d
    IF Dx: Endo, hetero MTHFR mutation, poor morphology
    #1 IUI: 1/18/12 = BFN
    #1 IVF/ICSI 4/2/12 = 2 x 7-cell and 1 x 5-cell transferred (3dt) = BFP!!
    H was born at 41w2d on 12/29/12 - be still my heart!
    #2 IVF/ICSI 1/19/14 = 2 x 8 cells transferred (3dt) = BFP!! EDD 10/09/14
    M&W born at 37 weeks on 9/18/14 - I am the momma of 3 boys!!!

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  • Congrats and welcome over to PAL!
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  • Congrats and yay for 4 hours of consecutive sleep! That's great for a newborn!
    ?DD 9/17/10 22wks I carry you in my heart.?
    bfp#2 2/14/11? cerclage placed at 13 weeks
    ?DS 9/29/11 36 wks 3 days 8lb 20 1/4" ?
    bfp#3 12/15/12 CP 12/27/12
    bfp#4 2/25/13
    beta#1 51 beta#2 163 beta#3 1,370
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