Doing the deed

amberthehobbit

I almost wrote doing the dead! Ha ha that's what lack of sleep from the 3 month growth spurt gets me.

Anyway. We DTD for the 2nd time tonight, yes, the 2nd time in 3 months. We tried at 6 weeks and I partially retore.

I had a very minor tear that could have taken 2 stitches but they used dermabond instead because even though I had just pushed a mini human out of my vag I was a big baby and didn't want stitches.

So, I let myself heal and waited about 6 more weeks and I tore again.

I'm assuming at some point I will fully heal but wondering if anyone else has a super sensitive vagina and how long it took to heal.

RayT1

Me!  I had to have my episiotomy redone at 3 weeks PP, it's still painful where the stitches were.  My DR suggested putting a little bit of cortisone cream on 'the area' once a day, lately I've been bad at remembering...every time we DTD it gets a tiny bit easier.  

ShabyKitty

I LOLed at doing the dead and woke up DH. Hahahaha!!

AmyP4383

We have now done it 4 times pp. I had many stitches and a 2nd degree tear and am still very sensitive. It's uncomfortable and makes me have Zero interest in sex :

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JoNi2010

I bled for the first maybe 5-6x and it was sooooo painful.  I think I might have re-torn each time, but a small bit since there would be a small amount of blood.  But it did get easier and more pleasureful the more we did it.  I try to do it weekly.  We still have to take it extremely slow but it's starting to get a bit fun again.

CP0979

We DTD for the first time last night, embarrassing I know. I had an episiotomy. It was a little uncomfortable but got better as we kept going. I didn't bleed or tear. Hopefully it will get even better. I was also tensing a bit bc I was nervous it would hurt...