personal question

lawjjg522

My husband misses my boobs. And is in awe of the new ones. He cant wait to play w/ them.... hands and other wise... im terrified of the squirting/leaking so i havent let him.....

When did you let your s/o have booby time back?

magnoliablossom00

IMO, it's better to include your dh as much as possible in your "new" body. Whatever feels comfortable to you both is the best decision, and that is going to vary for every couple. However, if he misses your chest, why not try it and see how it goes? Who cares if you leak? That is a part of this time in your life. Besides, unless you plan on quitting BFing soon, it's something you will both have to get used to. I guess I see it as something to laugh about and keep on going for the sake of your intimacy, you know?

mocasio3357

Glad you posted this, OP. 

And good advice, PP. 

MrsBigTime

I think PP said it beautifully! 

My DH has been very into my breasts as well, and we're both missing intimacy in general. The few times we've tried to have some romantic time we've gone slow and made sure to talk to each other through it. I was nervous he'd be super weirded out if I leaked the first time he really touched my new breasts, and when I told him my concern he assured me he was totally ok with anything that would happen. In fact, as we were messing around for the first time, I thought the most intimate, special part was him and I talking and processing my new body.

I've found my DH to be more accepting, curious and intrigued by all of this than I thought he would be. He's adjusting to all of my body's changes alongside me and his gentle curiosity has really helped me feel more secure in where I am now, stretch marks, leaky boobs and all.  

peacelove&mama

I let him, when he wants to. He just avoids putting them in his mouth, lmao.

kescalera

My DH has been so excited for the "new" boobs. He doesn't mind if they squirt/leak because he's had a sample of the milk already & says it tastes pretty good. I think its a little strange myself but hey, if he doesn't mind then I don't have to worry about it.... plus he can burp himself

BeccaLandes

my husband has not had access to my boobs since i got pregnant with my twins in july of 2009.

i was thinking about this- i don't think i want him touching them again. they have lost all their erotic feelings for me now that i am feeding my 3rd baby with them.  i appreciate them, but the idea of him touching them is not at all arousing. 

LittleFish1

Am too sore to think about in any uses except feeding LO to soften up the hard spots.

Question though, and yes, I sometimes over think things.... a few years ago, saw a news reports about a research study that found parents were passing along the cavity causing bacteria by sharing utensils with their kids ...i.e., the parent tastes the food to make sure its right temp and flavir... would this hold true for nipple and possibly pass the bacteria to the nipple then LO?

ilenegrace

I didn't let DH have my boobs back for 18mos last time which was the entire time I nursed DS. Not sure how I feel this time yet.

Jacqui105

When I am done breastfeeding and pumping, he can have them back. They get too much attention right now without him. He knows, I didn't let him touch them at all with DD1 either for the 13 months I BF her. He brought it up the other day though, and in response I showed him how far milk shoots out of my boobs right now, and that settled that lol. He doesn't want breastmilk all over him during sexy time...

Ab42187

I personally do not want DH to touch me anywhere, anytime soon but that is just me. I say whenever you both are comfortable then your good to go.

kristine618

I'm more than ready but DH does not at all seem interested...

StefandTodd

I'm still BFing my 17 month old, so it's been at least that long.  I have no desire to have my boobs touched any more than they already are by my two little nursers.

Lferr417

Glad you posted this.. I wondered the same thing.. Especially after I was taking care of DHs needs the other day topless and felt drips and when I looked down I had two huge wet marks on my jeans!! We laughed it off but I was totally embarrassed but it is what it is and now we know.. Few min of touching and then they need to get put away.

I've just made sure they're looking pretty in something besides a nursing bra since they can't come out to play..:

Good luck!!

Notwifezilla7

It'll be sometime, like 13 -15 months until he'll be up to touching my boobs again. He's just not into BFing boobs, and that's okay by me. I feel like a chick from Natl Geographic right now anyway.