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Not sure where I belong, but I think it may be here (m/c mentioned)

SnowflakeBride06SnowflakeBride06 member
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Hi ladies,

I have posted and lurked here a bit.  Brief intro, if I didn't do so before (I forget).

I have PCOS, had a fallopian torsion in 2009 while TTC #1. Got KU with #1 12/09 and DD was born 9/10 with the only complication of having GD.

I had a c/s infection with complications and more surgery after that.

My cycle came back 10 mo PP and was normal amazingly!

I was dx with lupus this summer but was told it was ok to get KU. 

We haven't really avoided since then and I got KU this cycle naturally.

But sadly, its ending as I am miscarrying now.

At the same time, I was just starting out with the RE as I wasn't getting pregnant have PCOS and now Lupus.

I think my RE is a jerk (ha) but the clinic itself has been good considering I came to my first apt KU and about to m/c.  

At the same time I feel like a pin cushion and since I don't know the staff/dr. too well I feel bounced around and not really supported during this tough time.

I have been seeing different doctors at the fert clinic including my RE and each have their own take on the situation.

Yesterday, the dr. said looking at my u/s I have PCOS, a right ovary that is out of whack and this pg might be ectopic and I seem to have tubal issues and IVF might be my best bet.

I am swimming in emotions and I just don't know how to make sense of it all.  

I think I just need to breathe get through this and then decide but its hard when I don't know this clinic well.

Am I alone in feeling like this? 

 



 6/09 right tube loss (fallopian torsion) 12/09 BFP #1 (DD born 9/10)
8/12 dx Lupus (ANA+/APA-), 12/12 BFP #2  natural m/c 6w 2d 
TTC#2  since 9/12  50mg Clomid/Ovidrel IUI #1 Beta 10/4=BFN
                             50mg Clomid/Ovidrel IUI #2 Beta 11/1= BFN
                                  100 mg Clomid/Ovidrel IUI #3 Beta 12/26=BFFN
100 mg Clomid/Ovidrel IUI #4 Beta 2/14= BFFN
Took a LONG Break
Lots of Luck and Love BFPB for life KOFMKG
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Re: Not sure where I belong, but I think it may be here (m/c mentioned)

  • SnowflakeBride06SnowflakeBride06 member
    imagegennyu:
    First of all, I am sorry for your loss.nbsp; Secondly, I remember you from the Baby Boards my DS is the same age as your DD and I can't believe how grown up your DD looks!nbsp; Is she tall, or is it just the picture?As far as your questions go, have you amp; your DH completed all the standard IF testing?nbsp; I think it is important to get a complete picture before considering IVF.


    She is tall for her age it does make her look older!

    We are going to do the testing but went to the RE already pg so that willhappen after this is over


     6/09 right tube loss (fallopian torsion) 12/09 BFP #1 (DD born 9/10)
    8/12 dx Lupus (ANA+/APA-), 12/12 BFP #2  natural m/c 6w 2d 
    TTC#2  since 9/12  50mg Clomid/Ovidrel IUI #1 Beta 10/4=BFN
                                 50mg Clomid/Ovidrel IUI #2 Beta 11/1= BFN
                                      100 mg Clomid/Ovidrel IUI #3 Beta 12/26=BFFN
    100 mg Clomid/Ovidrel IUI #4 Beta 2/14= BFFN
    Took a LONG Break
    Lots of Luck and Love BFPB for life KOFMKG
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