Unnecessary affection.

candaceleigh21

Ok so maybe I am just moody but I seriously just had a minor freakout on MH. Why the hell can he not just hug me?! Why does it always require a boob squeeze or a butt slap?! Last time I checked, these body parts still belonged to me. I have an awful headache and now I am pissy. Bleh. Does this bother anyone else?

alyson686

It didn't used to, but ever since having kids, for some reason it does...not always, but I've been really annoyed by it a number of times.

jenmccon

Omg same thing happens when DH "hugs" me!! I hate it! I have zero patience for that sh!t right now. The butt slap makes me want to junk punch him sometimes. It didn't really bother me before baby. But I have such a short fuse now. Hopefully I mellow out soon. Lol

NapJunkie

I'm the opposite.  It used to send me into a flying rage before I had my kid, but now it doesn't bother me that much.  That's not to say that I'm more mellow since having a kid because that is definitely not true lol.

danienross

DH doesn't do those things when he hugs me...or ever really. I'd probably slap him if he tried. So not cool unless you're into that kind of thing.

BabyCarryingVessel

Definitely bothers me too. I think it's because I feel like my body isn't human anymore! My boobs always have babies on them, my stomach is never going to be the same, etc. Just give me a nice hug and please don't grab my boobs or butt!

candaceleigh21

I am so glad that I am not alone in this. I tell DH all the time that I just feel like a big mom blob and that I am on touch overload. He doesnt understand or doesnt care so I guess it shall continue.