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Fun appt this morning

melkel559melkel559 member
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So this is my monitoring cycle just to ensure all is ok to proceed with our first DIUI next month. Go in this morning and the nurse always pulls up my info and then leaves me to change and wait for the doctor. So I am sitting there and staring me in the face on the ultrasound screen is a pic of another girl's ute with my exact same name and of course she is PG. I mean, it was pretty glaring. I'm like yep, that's a baby right there. Doc comes in and I'm like "ummm so what the heck is that?" and he says "Oops!! That's another patient. And yes, that's a baby." Not even an apology! I love my RE and I know mistakes happen but come on..that was just fab. I'm like yes, let's switch screens..oh, yep, there's that nice empty ute. That's me. Ugh.
TTC since June 2011
DX: DH (30) severe MFI, severely low count & low motility
Me (32): all clear
Appt with Urologist 5/21/12: exam, ultrasound, bloodwork all normal.
Testicular Biopsy with TESE on 6/8/12. good sperm found! (left side only) froze sperm, failed thaw test :(
Orientation for IVF/ICSI on 6/13/12. Waiting for the green light following biopsy results...results show adequate sperm production both sides.
2nd SA 6/18/12: sample is "adequate for ICSI"
Plan: IVF/ICSI July 2012!
ER: 7/26/12. 15 eggs retrieved, all mature.
TESE/TESA/aspiration from epididymis, no motile sperm found :(
froze all eggs, the saga of praying for good sperm continues.
8/3/12: 2nd opinion from MFI uro on biopsy slides. Suspects "partial late maturation arrest."
Plan: more SAs, third biopsy/TESE with frozen back-up either from DH or DS.
SA 8/17/12: Zero sperm
SA 8/23/12: Zero sperm
9/26/12: SPERM FOUND! 15 eggs thawed, 12 survived and were ICSI'd, only 3 fertilized normally. Refrozen as embies and will thaw in Nov. Please survive and grow!
All 3 survived the thaw on 11/15/12!
FET 11/17/12: transferred 2, one 4B, one 4C. Beta 11/30:BFFN
moving on to DS
DIUI#1 2/18/13,50mg Clomid cd 3-7, Ovidrel trigger, Beta 3/4/13: BFN.
DIUI#2 3/19/13, 50 mg Clomid cd 3-7, Ovidrel trigger, Beta #1 (14dpiui) 4/2/13: BFP!!!! 150. Beta #2 4/4/13: 420 Beta #3 4/8/13: 2691. Beta #4 4/15/13: 15,086
1st u/s 4/8/13 shows one gestational sac
2nd u/s 4/15/13 shows yolk sac, fetal pole and early heartbeat
3rd u/s 4/25/13: measuring right on track. Heart rate 148 bpm
A/S 7/22/13: IT'S A BOY!!
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  • jezebel57jezebel57 member
    Ugh, so so sorry that happened. 
    Me (37) DH (39); PCOS changed to Unexplained, changed to DOR in 2012 (finally a correct diagnosis!); 
    Started TTC 2009 with RE after 6 months.  
    Clomid + Trigger x2; 
    IUI + Femara x1,
    IUI + Follistim x2;
    IVF #1 (MDL) February 2013- BFN.
    IVF #2 (antagonist) May 2013, First BFP of my life. 
    Identical twin miracle BOYS (!!) headed our way- due date is technically 2/4/14 but c section is scheduled for 1/7! 


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  • LaineyPaneyLaineyPaney member
    Insensitive AND a HIPAA violation.
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    imagemelkel559:
    So this is my monitoring cycle just to ensure all is ok to proceed with our first DIUI next month. Go in this morning and the nurse always pulls up my info and then leaves me to change and wait for the doctor. So I am sitting there and staring me in the face on the ultrasound screen is a pic of another girl's ute with my exact same name and of course she is PG. I mean, it was pretty glaring. I'm like yep, that's a baby right there. Doc comes in and I'm like "ummm so what the heck is that?" and he says "Oops!! That's another patient. And yes, that's a baby." Not even an apology! I love my RE and I know mistakes happen but come on..that was just fab. I'm like yes, let's switch screens..oh, yep, there's that nice empty ute. That's me. Ugh.

    Um, that's pretty insensitive of the RE. You should have said just because I can't get PG, doesn't mean I don't know what a fetus looks like. I'm infertile, not stupid. lol


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    Ugh, I am so sorry!! That's horrible!

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  • melkel559melkel559 member
    imageDoublePortion:

    imagemelkel559:
    So this is my monitoring cycle just to ensure all is ok to proceed with our first DIUI next month. Go in this morning and the nurse always pulls up my info and then leaves me to change and wait for the doctor. So I am sitting there and staring me in the face on the ultrasound screen is a pic of another girl's ute with my exact same name and of course she is PG. I mean, it was pretty glaring. I'm like yep, that's a baby right there. Doc comes in and I'm like "ummm so what the heck is that?" and he says "Oops!! That's another patient. And yes, that's a baby." Not even an apology! I love my RE and I know mistakes happen but come on..that was just fab. I'm like yes, let's switch screens..oh, yep, there's that nice empty ute. That's me. Ugh.

    Um, that's pretty insensitive of the RE. You should have said just
    because I can't get PG, doesn't mean I don't know what a fetus looks like.
    I'm infertile, not stupid. lol



    You're right, I should have said that. Clearly he didn't catch the sarcasm in my voice when I asked him that..it was less of a question and more of a "switch screens NOW" kind of thing.
    TTC since June 2011
    DX: DH (30) severe MFI, severely low count & low motility
    Me (32): all clear
    Appt with Urologist 5/21/12: exam, ultrasound, bloodwork all normal.
    Testicular Biopsy with TESE on 6/8/12. good sperm found! (left side only) froze sperm, failed thaw test :(
    Orientation for IVF/ICSI on 6/13/12. Waiting for the green light following biopsy results...results show adequate sperm production both sides.
    2nd SA 6/18/12: sample is "adequate for ICSI"
    Plan: IVF/ICSI July 2012!
    ER: 7/26/12. 15 eggs retrieved, all mature.
    TESE/TESA/aspiration from epididymis, no motile sperm found :(
    froze all eggs, the saga of praying for good sperm continues.
    8/3/12: 2nd opinion from MFI uro on biopsy slides. Suspects "partial late maturation arrest."
    Plan: more SAs, third biopsy/TESE with frozen back-up either from DH or DS.
    SA 8/17/12: Zero sperm
    SA 8/23/12: Zero sperm
    9/26/12: SPERM FOUND! 15 eggs thawed, 12 survived and were ICSI'd, only 3 fertilized normally. Refrozen as embies and will thaw in Nov. Please survive and grow!
    All 3 survived the thaw on 11/15/12!
    FET 11/17/12: transferred 2, one 4B, one 4C. Beta 11/30:BFFN
    moving on to DS
    DIUI#1 2/18/13,50mg Clomid cd 3-7, Ovidrel trigger, Beta 3/4/13: BFN.
    DIUI#2 3/19/13, 50 mg Clomid cd 3-7, Ovidrel trigger, Beta #1 (14dpiui) 4/2/13: BFP!!!! 150. Beta #2 4/4/13: 420 Beta #3 4/8/13: 2691. Beta #4 4/15/13: 15,086
    1st u/s 4/8/13 shows one gestational sac
    2nd u/s 4/15/13 shows yolk sac, fetal pole and early heartbeat
    3rd u/s 4/25/13: measuring right on track. Heart rate 148 bpm
    A/S 7/22/13: IT'S A BOY!!
    PAIF/SAIF Always Welcome
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  • stinkerbell6879stinkerbell6879 member

    UGH. I am sorry that happened! Also he was a jerk about it...You would think he would be a little more sensative to his patients. Huh?

    April 2013 DE IVF= BFN

    September 2013 DE IVF (Fingers Crossed) = BFFFN! again...

    October 2013 FET of our last 2 = Beta Hellzz for 6-7 Weeks. M/C

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  • kflynn81kflynn81 member
    How rude! Sorry that happened to you :(
    Me: 33, Endocrine issues & FVL       DH: 32, Nothing 
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    • FET #1   August 2013 = BFP!     EDD 5/11/14
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    Ugh!! I hate that happened! They need to be more careful, can anyone say HIPAA!?!
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  • Km672Km672 member
    That sounds awful... I have a hard time keeping my thoughts to myself and prob would have said something like 'yes, that's my empty uterus...'

    And hopefully would have been able to contain myself and not say, 'and yes, you're an idiot!'

    Me (32) DOR, elevated NK Cells/ 2 copies of MTHFR mutation/ MH (35) azoo/high DFI   (TTC#1 since 2009)

    IVFs#1-4: (4/10-2/12) all BFN

    Surprise Bfp (9/11) - c/p

    DS IUI#1-2 (9/12, 10/12) - BFN

    DS IVF: (11/12) - BFN

    DE/DS IVF#1: (10/13) - 2 day 3 embies transferred-BFFN

    FET of 2 day 6 blasts: (12/13) - c/p

    DE/DS IVF #2: (4/14) - 1 day 5 blast transferred...BFFN...again.

    FET 5/14: 1 day 5 hatching blast transferred...another BFFN

    Repeat SHG 6/14-normal / Endometrial Receptivity Array biopsy 7/14-Receptive Uterus

    New RE, additional testing reveals elevated NK Cells

    FET of 1 day 5 blast (RE recommends transferring 1 due to elevated NK cells) with lovenox, steroids & intralipids in October

     

     

     

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  • Cypress82Cypress82 member
    Wow...that's horrible. I hate that I have to see my uterus so many times empty SadI was really hoping that the first time I saw it, there would be a lil bean in there. Hopefully soon for all of us!

    **TTC #1 Sep 2009-Feb 2013**   Me: 33 DH: 32 (healthy, SA = normal)

    DX (May 2010) = Lap #1 showed Stage I-II endometriosis. HSG normal. Tx with 6 mo Lupron (which did nothing...) Lap #2 June 2011 to remove endo, uterine fibroid, and polyp

    IUI #1-#3 (July-Sep 2011): All Clomid 50 mg + unmonitored IUI = All BFN

    October 2011 - April 2012: Outta $$$ (no insurance coverage) = back to tryin' on our own

    May 2012 - August 2012: Mental break from trying

    October 2012: New OB. Bloodwork normal aside from slightly low progesterone

    November 2012: IUI #4: Letrozole 2.5 mg + Novarel trigger + monitored IUI + progesterone = BFN

    IVF #1: Long Lupron Protocol,Menopur,Follistim, ER = 2/12/13 27R/26M/23F

    2/17/13 Transferred 1 perfect Grade 1 blast. 17 frostbabies.

    HPT 7dp5dt: BFP!!! Beta #1 9dp5dt: 108 Beta #2 11dp5dt: 368

    U/S #1 3/21: Heartbeat and one perfect bean!!  DS born 11/6/13 via c-section


    TTC #2 March - August 2015 = all BFNs

    Prep for FET #1: Aug 2015: found "mass" in uterus on saline sonogram; scheduled a hysteroscopy to remove. 

    Sept 2015: Hysteroscopy: mass turned out to be scar tissue(?), all removed. Recheck saline sonogram 2 weeks later showed "stuff" still in uterus (more scar tissue? remnants from surgery? Will see if clears with a period). Recheck saline sonogram 1 week later: all clear! Start Lupron and Estrace. Follow up u/s 2 weeks later: uterine lining only 5mm, add in patches. Follow up u/s 1 week later: uterine lining = 4.3mm (argh!), stop estrace and patches and start estradiol injections twice/week. Follow up u/s 2 weeks later: uterine lining = 5mm :/ Instructed to keep on estradiol injections and recheck in 5 days = lining still at 5mm. Need to make a decision - go for it? Or toss in the towel w/ this cycle and start all over again next year with a new protocol. Decided to go for it as we had 17 frosties; what have we got to lose?? 

    12/2/15 = transferred 1 perfect Grade B blast

    12/9/15 = HPT - BFP!!!!

    Beta #1 12/11/15: 236    Beta #2  12/14/15: 503   Please stick little one!!!!

    U/S scheduled for week of 1/4/16

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