ttc after losing our quads

hhudson92

Hey ladies, I am not sure that I am on the right board to be posting this, but I just really would like some answers. Here is my story... I have PCOS and no ovulation. My husband and I got pregnant after 3 rounds of clomid, 2 rounds of Femara, and 2 rounds of injections. The injections worked. We were having quads! Sadly, at 16 weeks, baby A's membranes ruptured and I delivered him 5 days later.  2 days later, I delivered the other three due to infection. It is the hardest thing I have ever been through. My babies, Jaxon, Jayse, Emersyn, and Ellee, were so beautiful. My question is, if anyone else on here has went through infertility, did you have to go through treatments after giving birth? Did your body change? I am wondering if my body may change now and start ovulating?  Or if I just need to pick up with treatments again? I feel such a void in my heart. Although nothing or noone will ever take the place of my precious angels that I already have, My husband and I would like to try right away. Thanks in advance.

AudUy

I have no answer to your question but I am so very sorry for the loss of your four beautiful babies.

TKtravels

I also have no answers for you (other than asking on this board does seem like a good idea), but I am so, so sorry for your losses.  

rkrichey

Big hugs to you and your husband.  I am so sorry for your loss.  I wasn't in your exact situation at all but I was having trouble TTC due to not ovulating when I came off the pill (I had been on it for 7+ years).  I had a regular period after the first month of being off it, then got pregnant and miscarried a couple of weeks later.  After that, I didn't ovulate or have a period for almost a year.  My OB was thinking PCOS but I got pregnant again right around that time so it wasn't ever looked into after that.  Then I had a missed mc with that one and had a d&c.  I got pregnant three weeks after the procedure and had my first rainbow baby.  After that, I wondered what my cycles would be like.  They were anywhere from 30-50 days but at least they were coming on their own.  I got pregnant again with this baby during the first cycle of trying so I think having the d&c and/or giving birth may have helped regulate my cycles a bit.  I hope that is your experience and that when you are ready to start TTC again, it will be an easy process for you.  

DCWJes

Hello! I am sorry you are here, but I wanted to extend an invitation to Trying To Conceive After A Loss on the left. At the top of that page, you will find a clicky link to our blog. Read the "Newbies" section, it's very informative. Lurk on the board to get a feel for the place and introduce yourself like you have done here. 

HollyBee1022

I don't have any advice, I just wanted to say I'm so, so sorry for your losses. I hope you find the answers you're looking for.  

BritsyB8

I am so, so sorry for your loss ((hugs))

I would suggest trying the TTCAL board when you feel up to it. The ladies there are amazing and provide a wonderful support system. I know they helped get me through my previous losses.