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Wednesday Community Checkin

I know it is getting late in the day for the East Coasters, but I for one would still love to have today's checkin.

QOTD: If health, nutrition, and money were not an issue, what food would you eat a lot more of?
****loss discussed*****

We're queer. I'm 33, have severe stage 4 endo, and had both fallopian tubes removed. My love ("Manada" on the boards, 32) was diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve. We did Partner IVF (my eggs, her uterus). We lost our twins Tavin and Casey at 21 weeks gestation.

Our IUIs
with @Manada: IUI# 1-7 (December 2012- September 2013) all BFN. Tried natural, femara, clomid, puregon/follistim, clomid and menopur combo, both the ovidrel and HCG triggers.

Our IVFs:
IVF #1 my eggs November/December 2013: Cancelled IVF due to poor response

IVF #2 my eggs/Manada's uterus January/February 2014
BCPs and lupron overlap Stimmed: 1/22-2/2: Bravelle and Menopur (dosage ranged from B300 and M150 to B375 and M150 to B300 and M225)
2/4 retrieved 10 eggs. Endo was much worse than expected. Only 3 eggs fertilized; February 7 transferred two day 3 embryos, froze one. All great condition.
BFP eve of 6dp3dt; Beta 1 (11dp3dt): 110; Beta 2 (13dp3dt): 175; Beta 3 (15dp3dt): 348; Beta 4 (19dp3dt): 2222; Beta 5 (21dp3dt): 4255
1st ultrasound (3/6  6w 1d): TWINS!!!! Twin A measuring 6w1d with a heartbeat of 118bpm. Twin B measuring 6w0d with a heartbeat of 113bpm. 

***July 18, 2014 we lost our beautiful babies at 21 weeks gestation. They were born too early. Tavin Sara T. and Casey Elizabeth T. are beautiful and precious and we will love them and miss them forever.***

FET #1 December 2014
Intralipid infusion on Dec 10. Transfer of 1 day 3 nine-cell embryo into my uterus on Dec. 19. (acupuncture immediately before and after)
BFP on Dec. 27; Beta 1 Jan 2 (14dp3dt): 665, Beta 2 Jan 4 (16dp3dt): 1859, Beta 3 Jan 6 (18dp3dt): 4449, Beta 4 Jan 10 (22dp3dt): 12,251.



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  • hmm.. I would eat at Joes Stone crab daily prolly  or have tons of bread and more bread.  

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  • Still trucking on bed rest.  The boys have dropped so I can finally eat a full meal again. Due to this I am having to remind myself this when I get up to get food.  If not I get a tiny portion and then I am still starving once I eat it lol. 

    Tomorrow we have another growth scan and will find out when they are going to deliver.  I am excited and nervous as I will have their official eviction date tomorrow and it can be anywhere in the next  10-14 days!  It will just depend on how controlled my pre-e still is. I am panicking as this could be our last weekend without kids and I feel like I want to go and do something special but I can't.

    Part of me is so ready for this to be done.  More so I know they are safely out and so I can start getting me back in and effort to handle two newborns.  The other part of me wants to desperately make it to the 31st so they are full term at 37 weeks.

    QOTW:

    I would hire a sushi chef and have a full salad bar installed.  If I had my way I would eat sushi and salads all the time.   I know I can just say go out and eat these things all the time but I rather would eat at home and know it's available.  Plus with my own chef I could create my own rolls!

    M & M
    06/12 - BFP!!!!
    Beta #1 15dpo - 256
    Beta #2 18dpo - 1097
    6wk U/S on 07/02 ~ TWINS!!!
    EDD 02/21/13
    09/10/12 Found out it's two Boys!!!! Sam and Jake
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    Are you joking by asking this of a community that contains many pregnant women?? Big Smile  He he he.

    Fried Chicken sounds good.  Yep.  Also any totally indulgent pasta dish (I already do eat more pasta than I should, but always make sure there is sufficient protein in it.  I'd get to ignore that rule and order a lot of other stuff).

    Also, and this is ridiculous, but ramen noodles.  Creamy Chicken flavor. 

    Don't get me wrong, I LOVE good food, healthy food.  Adore vegetables and ancient grains and lean proteins.  But sometimes you've just gotta satisfy a ramen craving.

    Married to my amazing wife 6/12/10 
    TTC since 6/11
    Unmedicated IUI #1 - 6/28/11 - BFN
    Unmedicated IUI #2 - 7/25/11 - BFN
    Robotic Myomectomy (Fibroid Surgery) - 11/15/11
    Unmedicated IUI #3 - 4/24/12 - BFN 
    Progesterone Supported Leuteal Phase IUI #4 - 6/21/12 - BFP!!
    Baby Boy G Born 3/24/13

    On to #2, are we crazy?
    IUI #1 - 11/28/14 - BFP!  Beta #1 (11DPO) 34, Beta #2 (13DPO) 101, Beta #3 (20DPO) 3043
    Ultrasound at 6w4d shows a single, fluttering heartbeat.  Say hello to Sticky Ricki!

     

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  • We inseminated today. It involved getting to the clinic at 6:45am M had to get to a work meeting.
    Our doc was out so the nurse did the insemination. I liked her a lot. She gave us more info about the sperm sample and what the numbers meant than the doc did last month. And she talked to M's belly in order to talk to the sperm after she did the insemination.
    The sample was good for a frozen sample so here's hoping!

    It was weird to have M head off to a day long meeting and then I had to go to campus so we haven't seen each other and won't until at least 6. I just want to cuddle and try to grow a baby.

    QOTD: tofu panaeng curry and good fresh rolls with peanut sauce I really love peanut sauce. And ice cream. And guacamole. And mashed potatoes. not all together, but those are some of my very favorites
    ****loss discussed*****

    We're queer. I'm 33, have severe stage 4 endo, and had both fallopian tubes removed. My love ("Manada" on the boards, 32) was diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve. We did Partner IVF (my eggs, her uterus). We lost our twins Tavin and Casey at 21 weeks gestation.

    Our IUIs
    with @Manada: IUI# 1-7 (December 2012- September 2013) all BFN. Tried natural, femara, clomid, puregon/follistim, clomid and menopur combo, both the ovidrel and HCG triggers.

    Our IVFs:
    IVF #1 my eggs November/December 2013: Cancelled IVF due to poor response

    IVF #2 my eggs/Manada's uterus January/February 2014
    BCPs and lupron overlap Stimmed: 1/22-2/2: Bravelle and Menopur (dosage ranged from B300 and M150 to B375 and M150 to B300 and M225)
    2/4 retrieved 10 eggs. Endo was much worse than expected. Only 3 eggs fertilized; February 7 transferred two day 3 embryos, froze one. All great condition.
    BFP eve of 6dp3dt; Beta 1 (11dp3dt): 110; Beta 2 (13dp3dt): 175; Beta 3 (15dp3dt): 348; Beta 4 (19dp3dt): 2222; Beta 5 (21dp3dt): 4255
    1st ultrasound (3/6  6w 1d): TWINS!!!! Twin A measuring 6w1d with a heartbeat of 118bpm. Twin B measuring 6w0d with a heartbeat of 113bpm. 

    ***July 18, 2014 we lost our beautiful babies at 21 weeks gestation. They were born too early. Tavin Sara T. and Casey Elizabeth T. are beautiful and precious and we will love them and miss them forever.***

    FET #1 December 2014
    Intralipid infusion on Dec 10. Transfer of 1 day 3 nine-cell embryo into my uterus on Dec. 19. (acupuncture immediately before and after)
    BFP on Dec. 27; Beta 1 Jan 2 (14dp3dt): 665, Beta 2 Jan 4 (16dp3dt): 1859, Beta 3 Jan 6 (18dp3dt): 4449, Beta 4 Jan 10 (22dp3dt): 12,251.



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  • So as H reported we inseminated today. The sample was good ...12 mil, 70 motile, good quality. And the nurse both talked to the sperm and commented on lots of fertile mucus. I feel pretty good about this one, I didn't have the same wet spot I had after out last iui today as last time tmi?, so I am more confident even though I know the sperm doesn't leak out!

    I am looking forward to hearing H's songs to the sperm, egg and uterus over the next few days! I am also going to test out the trigger shot, for something to do this time, so that shod be sufficiently geeky for me.

    Otherwise, my week has been super busy at work, but good. I really love my job and spent the day in a visioning meeting today, so that was great and very inspiring. We have a new high up boss and she is working really hard to instill values of inclusion so I love that.

    And for the QOTD: an unequivocal Pizza! I love pizza. 2nd to that would be a ckn kebab from the little Turkish resto I used to frequent in London when I lived there....

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    queer couple - 32 (me) & 33 (my love) years old - donor sperm,

    Our IF/TTC journey since Nov 2012.

    Me: dx of DOR in Nov. 2012. Low AMH, AFC - 6, Normal FSH, SS-A (RO) Antibodies (Autoimmune issues), tubes clear, Sono (November 2013) NORMAL! <p>

    7 IUI's - December 2012-September 2013.  Medicated, Injected, Triggered.... all BFN.

    My Love:  (the amazing @Healz413)
    Normal AMH & FSH, AFC ~27, blocked tube dx'd via HSG in 2012.   Hydrosalpinx & ovarian cyst dx'd in May 2013.
    dx of Stage IV Endo & bilateral salpinectomy in June 2013.  

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    Partner IVF#1a- December 2013 - H's eggs, my Ute - CANCELLED due to low response
    Partner IVF #1b - February 2014 - H's eggs, my Ute - ER February 4 (10 retrieved, 3 fertilized), Transfer Feb 7 of one Grade 1 and one Grade 2 day 3 embryos.  1 - Day 3, Grade 1 frosty saved.   BFP - 6dp3dt via FRER, Beta #1 - 110, Beta #2 175, Beta #3 - 348, Beta #4 - 2222!, Beta #5 - 4255.  Ultrasound (6w1d) - 2 heartbearts!  

    We lost our beautiful Twin baby girls on June 18, 2014.  Tavin Sara and Casey Elizabeth were born at 21 weeks gestation and were absolutely beautiful, precious, amazing babies.  We miss our daughters every day and love them with all our hearts.

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  • I just had a very difficult discussion with my boss re: time off for appointments. My biggest regret is that I told her I was TTC. Now I have to get HR involved. I hate this stuff. I just want my baby and I want to cry. I don't want to be saying in ten years, I always wanted children but I just couldn't get the time off of work!

    I would eat pasta forever. I lived in Italy for two years and I am addicted. I haven't had any in the new year and it is killing me. Yesterday I ordered hemp seed pasta at a vegan restaurant and it was cold and crunchy. Not good. I'm going to break down soon and eat some. Maybe tonight.
    M&K met 8/2002 married 6/2012
    TTC with RE since March 2012
    3 missed O's, 6 IUIs = 1 BFP then 8 w M/C, 5 BFNs
    (2 unmedicated IUIs, 2 clomid IUI, 2 femara IUI)
    Shared maternity/partner IVF, transfer #1 BFP!
    EDD 11/28/13
  • Awwww Molly!! Don't stress you will have your baby and you will have all the pasta you want.
  • imagebundleoluv11:
    Awwww Molly!! Don't stress you will have your baby and you will have all the pasta you want.


    I don't know you but I love you.
    M&K met 8/2002 married 6/2012
    TTC with RE since March 2012
    3 missed O's, 6 IUIs = 1 BFP then 8 w M/C, 5 BFNs
    (2 unmedicated IUIs, 2 clomid IUI, 2 femara IUI)
    Shared maternity/partner IVF, transfer #1 BFP!
    EDD 11/28/13
  • imagemollykelley:
    imagebundleoluv11:
    Awwww Molly!! Don't stress you will have your baby and you will have all the pasta you want.


    I don't know you but I love you.


    I have had several reactions just like this to things posted on the board at various points.

    And, MK, boo on your boss and yay for you and your partner and your future baby who is hopefully starting out the embryo process while we write.
    ****loss discussed*****

    We're queer. I'm 33, have severe stage 4 endo, and had both fallopian tubes removed. My love ("Manada" on the boards, 32) was diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve. We did Partner IVF (my eggs, her uterus). We lost our twins Tavin and Casey at 21 weeks gestation.

    Our IUIs
    with @Manada: IUI# 1-7 (December 2012- September 2013) all BFN. Tried natural, femara, clomid, puregon/follistim, clomid and menopur combo, both the ovidrel and HCG triggers.

    Our IVFs:
    IVF #1 my eggs November/December 2013: Cancelled IVF due to poor response

    IVF #2 my eggs/Manada's uterus January/February 2014
    BCPs and lupron overlap Stimmed: 1/22-2/2: Bravelle and Menopur (dosage ranged from B300 and M150 to B375 and M150 to B300 and M225)
    2/4 retrieved 10 eggs. Endo was much worse than expected. Only 3 eggs fertilized; February 7 transferred two day 3 embryos, froze one. All great condition.
    BFP eve of 6dp3dt; Beta 1 (11dp3dt): 110; Beta 2 (13dp3dt): 175; Beta 3 (15dp3dt): 348; Beta 4 (19dp3dt): 2222; Beta 5 (21dp3dt): 4255
    1st ultrasound (3/6  6w 1d): TWINS!!!! Twin A measuring 6w1d with a heartbeat of 118bpm. Twin B measuring 6w0d with a heartbeat of 113bpm. 

    ***July 18, 2014 we lost our beautiful babies at 21 weeks gestation. They were born too early. Tavin Sara T. and Casey Elizabeth T. are beautiful and precious and we will love them and miss them forever.***

    FET #1 December 2014
    Intralipid infusion on Dec 10. Transfer of 1 day 3 nine-cell embryo into my uterus on Dec. 19. (acupuncture immediately before and after)
    BFP on Dec. 27; Beta 1 Jan 2 (14dp3dt): 665, Beta 2 Jan 4 (16dp3dt): 1859, Beta 3 Jan 6 (18dp3dt): 4449, Beta 4 Jan 10 (22dp3dt): 12,251.



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  • Molly I know the feeling my job gave me the blues about me wanting to have a child and I went on leave and had my baby now she is 7 so, don't stress about leave it in gods hands and you will be pregnant soon.
  • Thanks ladies! Tonight is my weekly massage. Then pasta. Then cuddling with my wife. I have to remember how truly blessed I am, and there WILL be a baby someday.
    M&K met 8/2002 married 6/2012
    TTC with RE since March 2012
    3 missed O's, 6 IUIs = 1 BFP then 8 w M/C, 5 BFNs
    (2 unmedicated IUIs, 2 clomid IUI, 2 femara IUI)
    Shared maternity/partner IVF, transfer #1 BFP!
    EDD 11/28/13
  • imagemollykelley:
    I just had a very difficult discussion with my boss re: time off for appointments. My biggest regret is that I told her I was TTC. Now I have to get HR involved. I hate this stuff. I just want my baby and I want to cry. I don't want to be saying in ten years, I always wanted children but I just couldn't get the time off of work! I would eat pasta forever. I lived in Italy for two years and I am addicted. I haven't had any in the new year and it is killing me. Yesterday I ordered hemp seed pasta at a vegan restaurant and it was cold and crunchy. Not good. I'm going to break down soon and eat some. Maybe tonight.

    Wait, what? Why do you have to get HR involved? What? Your boss is off her rocker (which we already knew). BSC. Hugs to you, and eat some pasta already!

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  • I'm... nauseous. Nothing really sounds good. On a regular, non-nauseous day, I'd probably say sushi and cheese are things I'd eat more if I had no pocket (sushi) or dairy intolerance issues. Not together, though. That would be disgusting.

    Other than that, nauseous and hormonal. Big Smile 

     

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  • Glad this thread was started!

    Update: We're heading out of town tomorrow for our family pregnancy announcement road trip. It will be a lot of driving and stops (both to visit family and along the way for my poor pregnant bladder) but it will be fun!

    QOTD: I was going to say that I would eat out at my favorite vegan restaurants more frequently, but I also love the idea of a personal chef!

     

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  • I thought I'd be happy that the OB declared me "back to normal" yesterday but I felt oddly deflated.  I think I had built the appointment up as being one step closer to FET...and although it's true that I had to clear that hurdle, it doesn't actually get me any closer to FET.  Which feels far, far away.  I am tired. of. waiting.

    Period still MIA.  5 weeks tomorrow.

    QOTD: One of the things I like about WW is that I can eat anything as long as I am smart about frequency and portion size.  But there are two things that I can never quite feel OK about eating because a) they are so high in points that I can never have more than a tiny bit and b) are pretty much all carbs and fat and so don't have a lot of redeeming qualities in the nutrition department.  Those things are nachos and macaroni and cheese.  So those are my things.  Plus ice cream.  Huge vats of ice cream.

    Married my wife 8/2007 ~ TTC #1 since 7/2011
    9 IUIs = 9 BFNs
    IVF October 2012: 22 eggs retrieved, 17 fertilized, 5 frozen
    ET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Blighted ovum discovered at 7w5d; D&E
    FET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Missed m/c discovered at 9w5d; D&E
    Karyotyping: normal ~ RPL Testing: normal ~ Hysteroscopy: normal
    FET #2: 1 blast transferred 10/25; BFP 10/31!
    EDD 7/13/14 ~ Induced at 37w4d due to pre-eclampsia ~ Born on 6/28/14
    *Everyone welcome*

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  • Cupcakes...slushies.....steak fries.....wait, do I have to just pick one?
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