A Fun Poll!

eesome

Since I have been working my butt off and have been neglecting you ladies, I owe you all a fun poll.

On a scale of 1 to 10, rate the body parts and persona elements that "catch your eye". Just go back to when you were looking for your spouse/partner.

(Rate: 10="Most Important" / 1="Least Important")

Eyes=
Hair=
Smile/Teeth=
Shoulders=
Pecks / Breasts=
Arms=
Abs=
Hips=
Butt=
Legs=
Calves=
Intellect=
Sense of Humor=
Attitude=

eesome

Eyes= 8
Hair= 4
Smile/Teeth = 9
Shoulders= 7
Pecks / Breasts= 8
Arms= 7
Abs= 7
Hips= 6
Butt= 10+
Legs= 4
Calves= 4
Intellect= 10+
Sense of Humor= 10+
Attitude= 10+

Monsieur_et_Madame_Ha

 

Eyes= 10
Hair= 6 (I don't care so much - as long as the guy is well groomed, I'm happy)
Smile/Teeth= 10
Shoulders= 8 (it's not so much about the shoulders but about the guy's build - I'm no small gal and I don't want to feel like I would be the one doing the protecting/defending if we were mugged)
Pecks / Breasts= 2 (meh - I don,t care so long as he doesn't have man boobs. And even then, I'd probably get over it)
Arms= 2
Abs= 4 (a pot belly isn't a turn on, but this is also something I thin kI could get over fairly easily)
Hips= 8 (see "shoulders" above)
Butt= 7
Legs= 7
Calves= 6
Intellect= 8
Sense of Humor= 8
Attitude= 8

To me, intellect, sense of humour, and attitude are all important, but it's really the combination of the 3 that will do it for me. I mean, a sense of humour is great, but if the guy is nothing but a clown, I'll pass. Just like I want to be able to have conversations about deeper and more intellectual subjects, I don't want a guy who will spend an entire date spewing out random facts.

NativeFloridian

Well, I will be looking for a spouse/partner at some point in the future, all things considered, so this may come in handy, lol.

Eyes= 1
Hair= 2
Smile/Teeth= 6
Shoulders= 1
Pecks / Breasts=5
Arms= 1
Abs= 7
Hips= 1
Butt= 1
Legs= 4
Calves= 3
Intellect= 10
Sense of Humor= 8
Attitude= 9

ETA: It's the mind that's most important, and the combo of intellect, sense of humor, and attitude are very important to me.  Some body parts I just don't care about.  But, in general, if a guy has good abs he's likely to have a decent body all-around because he probably works out.  Just saying.

Monsieur_et_Madame_Ha

NativeFloridian:

if a guy has good abs he's likely to have a decent body all-around because he probably works out.  Just saying. 

You make a good point there.  

NativeFloridian

Wait, wait.  Can I replace my whole answer with this?

Monsieur_et_Madame_Ha

NativeFloridian:

Wait, wait.  Can I replace my whole answer with this?

Please don't hate me but... who is that? 

Duffgurl

Eyes= 10
Hair= 6
Smile/Teeth= 10
Shoulders= 10
Pecks / Breasts= 10
Arms= 10
Abs= 5
Hips= 1
Butt= 8
Legs= 5
Calves= 5
Intellect= 8
Sense of Humor= 9
Attitude= 7

:-D

NativeFloridian

Monsieur_et_Madame_Ha:

Please don't hate me but... who is that? 

lol, I didn't expect anyone to recognize him.  It's Benedict Cumberbatch.

In my experience, folks either think he's the sex or think he's totally ugly.  I like the lean-and-tall types and guys with a nerdy sort of attractiveness (at the risk of sounding full of myself, I'd consider myself nerdy-attractive, so I go for that type of thing), so he's right up my alley.

He's got the most fascinating eyes (though I normally don't give a fig about eyes), cheekbones you could carve a turkey with, and a deep voice that makes me want to melt.  Then, of course, during interviews, you can tell he's an intelligent person, and he has fun sense of humor and generally good attitude.  Of course you can never really know a person until you meet them yourself, but I admire him from a distance for sure.

Here he is in more recognizable form:

 

NativeFloridian

Can we add well-dressed to the list?  I can't stand it when men dress like they shop out of their local dumpsters.

Monsieur_et_Madame_Ha

NativeFloridian:

lol, I didn't expect anyone to recognize him.  It's Benedict Cumberbatch.

I figured it was, but I couldn't tell for sure - I've only ever seen himin your siggy or gif's and pretty much always as Sherlock

Rachey1082

Eyes= 8
Hair= 2
Smile/Teeth = 9
Shoulders= 7
Pecks / Breasts= 2
Arms= 7
Abs= 3
Hips= 4
Butt= 7
Legs= 4
Calves= 4
Intellect= 9
Sense of Humor= 10
Attitude= 10

If a guy is funny with big shoulders and sexy eyes, I'm in. Haha I don't want to judge a dude on abs and other body areas if I was to actually consider dating them because I used to be a size 24, turned a 6, had a boob job, needed a tummy tuck but decided to wait. Anyway, my skin has been super saggy way before kids. I feel like my weight was something that made me undateable for so long, why would I do that to someone else? But, my H is really attractive. He's thin and dark and very funny. So, I'm happy with what I have.

Monsieur_et_Madame_Ha

Kimbus22:

You forgot height.  I've maybe once in my life been attracted to a man under 6 feet tall.  Which is odd given the fact that I'm barely 5 foot 2...

Oh yes, HEIGHT!

There was this guy way back when. He was cute and funny and all that, but he was a few inches shorter than me and I just couldn't get over that.

Also, Kimbus, there was this guy in high school that I liked. He was 6'3" or so, but his girlfriend was 5'1". I'm on the taller side (5'8" without shoes on) and I would always b!tch to my girlfriends that shorter girls should stick with the shorter guys and leave the taller guys to the taller girls. lol 

NativeFloridian

Monsieur_et_Madame_Ha:

Kimbus22:

You forgot height.  I've maybe once in my life been attracted to a man under 6 feet tall.  Which is odd given the fact that I'm barely 5 foot 2...

Oh yes, HEIGHT!

There was this guy way back when. He was cute and funny and all that, but he was a few inches shorter than me and I just couldn't get over that.

Also, Kimbus, there was this guy in high school that I liked. He was 6'3" or so, but his girlfriend was 5'1". I'm on the taller side (5'8" without shoes on) and I would always b!tch to my girlfriends that shorter girls should stick with the shorter guys and leave the taller guys to the taller girls. lol 

Hahaha, you would have b!tched about me, then!  I'm 5'1" but I am attracted to tall guys.  I don't know why, I just like guys with the opposite body type.  I'm short and chesty with big hips and thighs, I like guys who are tall and lean.

 

Monsieur_et_Madame_Ha

Kimbus22:

So tall women taking tall men are just trying to create superhumans.  Greedy greedy!   

WE SHALL RULE THE WORLD!!! 

eesome

Am I the only one who judges a man without a nice ass? Call me shallow, but it has to be able to bounce a quarter off of it.