I went to the meeting on Friday asking if my behavior therapist can observe my DS and they all said no, it had to be in the IEP. I even told them I would sign so my behavioral therapist can come to the school.
The school was already taking notes for a BIP when I was there.
I was not my best self but I was crying.
I am glad to report that I did not sign anything but the school did inform me they would give me copies.
I went to go talk to the principal, teacher and school ot and told them what I felt on Monday. Again, I cried but I had better ground this time.
I called the special ed department at the school district Monday after the meeting and now they are conducting research. I have yet to speak to the director.
Thank you for your help! You were both right!