Hi all,
This is my first time here and I wanted to introduce myself. My wife and I live in NYC and we're about to begin the adoption process. We know almost nothing, except that we're leaning towards domestic adoption through an agency. We're still very much in the research stage, but I'd love any advice on picking an agency and what to expect from there.
Any other same-sex couples here? or people in the greater NYC area?
Looking forward to learning about everyone's experiences!
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Me: 37 DW: 39 (carrier)
Together 11 years ~ Married 4 years
IUI #1 - Dec 2013 - Natural cycle, monitored, Ovidrel w/ one 19mm follicle on CD15, back-to-back IUI w/ donor sperm - BFP on 1/1/14 - natural mc on 1/31
IUI #2 - March 2014 - Monitored, 100mg Clomid CD1-5. Ovidrel w/ one 22mm follicle on CD11, back-to-back IUI w/ donor sperm CD12-13... BFN
IUI #3 - April 2014 - Monitored, 100mg Clomid CD1-5. Ovidrel w/ one 24mm
follicle on CD13, back-to-back IUI w/ donor sperm CD14-15... BFP on 5/1/14 ... EDD: 1/10/15
Re: Introducing myself
Welcome!
There's an FAQ at the top of the board, if you haven't already checked it out. Good resources, including questions to ask as you look at agencies, etc. One good way to find out about them is to attend (virtual or in-person) info sessions.
We do have some NYers and some same-sex people here. You should see them shortly as they read your intro
TTC #2, Operative hysteroscopy March 2011; IVF #1 long lupron protocol April 2011-cancelled due to poor response; IVF #2 flare protocol May 2011=hospitalization due to abdominal hemorrhage during ER and no fert due to MFI issues. Moving onto international adoption from Moldova January 2013!
Hi, and welcome. I live in Jersey, about 14 miles from NYC as the crow flies.
The FAQs are a great place to start. After that, feel free to ask any specific questions you may have!