Adoption

Introducing myself

Hi all,

This is my first time here and I wanted to introduce myself. My wife and I live in NYC and we're about to begin the adoption process. We know almost nothing, except that we're leaning towards domestic adoption through an agency. We're still very much in the research stage, but I'd love any advice on picking an agency and what to expect from there.

Any other same-sex couples here? or people in the greater NYC area?

Looking forward to learning about everyone's experiences!

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Me: 37  DW: 39 (carrier)
Together 11 years ~ Married 4 years
IUI #1 - Dec 2013 - Natural cycle, monitored, Ovidrel w/ one 19mm follicle on CD15, back-to-back IUI w/ donor sperm - BFP on 1/1/14 - natural mc on 1/31
IUI #2 - March 2014 - Monitored, 100mg Clomid CD1-5. Ovidrel w/ one 22mm follicle on CD11, back-to-back IUI w/ donor sperm CD12-13... BFN
IUI #3 - April 2014 - Monitored, 100mg Clomid CD1-5. Ovidrel w/ one 24mm follicle on CD13, back-to-back IUI w/ donor sperm CD14-15... BFP on 5/1/14 ... EDD: 1/10/15



Re: Introducing myself

  • IRRIRR member
    Welcome.  Yes there are some same-sex couples on here.  I will let them chime in.  GL as you start your journey.
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  • Welcome!

    There's an FAQ at the top of the board, if you haven't already checked it out. Good resources, including questions to ask as you look at agencies, etc. One good way to find out about them is to attend (virtual or in-person) info sessions.

    We do have some NYers and some same-sex people here. You should see them shortly as they read your intro :)

  • Hi and welcome! DH and I live in NYC also. We have experience with 2 different NY agencies (one is the agency we're actually working with, one was just for our homestudy) so if you want any agency information once you get into everything just let me know!
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  • Hi! Same-Sex couple here living in an outerborough and recently homestudy approved. Let me know if you want any info!
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  • Hi, and welcome.  I live in Jersey, about 14 miles from NYC as the crow flies.

    The FAQs are a great place to start.  After that, feel free to ask any specific questions you may have! 

  • Hi ! we are  (Long island) NYers and same sex.  we are leaning towards carrying through a sperm bank donor... very new to this as well!
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  • I think I responded to this already--but... queer family here in Staten Island.
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    Welcome, we're in NJ. Good kuck on your journey. We're fostering and are foster to adopt. 
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    *luck
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