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aztoid2006

Hey!

I saw that you checked in on my post below.  Doing okay.  Friday was really hard, as it had been one week since the ultrasound and finding out that the baby was not okay. 

Trying to take care of myself, but it is hard at times because I am the primary care taker of Caleb.  Giving him lots of extra snuggles, and trying not to carry him more than needed. 

Found out the hospital has a support group that meets once a month, so I plan on going to the next meeting.  No one in my circle of friends has gone through this, so it is hard not having a girlfriend to talk/cry with.

How are you doing? 

This really sucks:(

waterfall11

Hi!  Totally understand how difficult it is to take care of yourself and a toddler.  Heck, some days it was difficult before having a m/c and feeling miserable physically and emotionally.  Of course it is a huge comfort having a LO and I am so glad I didn't have to go through m/c with my first pregnancy, my heart goes out to those women.  

 I am so glad you have found a support group!  I can't imagine not having anyone to talk to who has been through this experience.  For online support, have you checked out TTCAL?  I never got too active but participated in a couple check ins.  If you intro just be sure to post a warning in the title if you mention DS1 (a lot of the ladies don't have any kids and just like to be forewarned before opening a post in case they are having a bad day and don't want to hear about a kid).  

I am doing pretty well. Thank you for the congratulations on my post in the check in.  This BFP is kind of exciting, kind of scary and has made me very emotional.  I had been forewarned by a friend who had a m/c that her BFP and birth of son after both brought back all the emotions from m/c and I am glad she warned me so I don't feel like I am completely crazy right now.  

 Hang in there!  It totally gets better with time...and then you hit days like I am having today where you want to cry all the time, but they definitely become less frequent.  (((Big hugs)))

aztoid2006

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