I feel so alone

mmarquez209

I feel so alone in my grief.over.losing my daughter catalina. my family nd friends make me feel as if I shuld just get over it. Its been 4 Weeks since I lost my girl, I should be 26 Weeks. her dad is already over it. He says he ddnt see her so he doesnt feel anythn. Im heart broken shes gone. Im so out of control right now I dnt kno Wat to do im hurting nd sooo angry. I wish I was with my baby, I want to hold her nd take care of her.

Jennifer271012

mmarquez209:

I feel so alone in my grief.over.losing my daughter catalina. my family nd friends make me feel as if I shuld just get over it. Its been 4 Weeks since I lost my girl, I should be 26 Weeks. her dad is already over it. He says he ddnt see her so he doesnt feel anythn. Im heart broken shes gone. Im so out of control right now I dnt kno Wat to do im hurting nd sooo angry. I wish I was with my baby, I want to hold her nd take care of her.

I'm so sorry ((HUGS))

we all deal with grief differently and we all have good and bad days. At the very beginning I also felt very isolated. My family also thought I should just get over it and didn't really understand.

It's normal to feel this way. You are entitled to feel angry, sad and frustrated. 

Take good care of yourself and know that there are some very amazing ladies on these boards waiting to shower you in support.

meli1025

I'm so sorry.  You are not alone, you have all of us who have gone through the same thing and felt/feel just like you do.  Do what you need to do to help yourself grieve.  Have you thought about looking into therapy?  Talking to someone has helped me so much.  big ((hugs)).

Bayberry12

meli1025:

 Do what you need to do to help yourself grieve.  Have you thought about looking into therapy?  Talking to someone has helped me so much.  big ((hugs)).

I would really think about therapy or a support group.  My husband didn't understand  my grief, but after going to a support group he could see that everything I am feeling is normal.  You don't "get over" this you have to live with it every day for the rest of your life, you just learn to live with it. 

 

Pumpkins+Junebug

I know how you feel. I hadn't announced my pregnancy to some of my family, so I think they don't feel connected to the baby at all - they didn't lose anything, because they didn't know about her to begin with. 

I would look for some support groups or just therapy, someone you can talk to that won't blow you off or make you feel like you should be over it. I know I definitely won't be in 3 weeks. ((hugs)) 

Crunkal

I'm sorry for your loss, you are not alone. I know you feel helpless, and others do not understand, but we are here. I agree with pp you need to seek a support group or therapist in your area.They can help you through the grieving process. Hugs